Hey guys,
I met this incredibly hot girl a couple of weeks ago through a fitness bootcamp which I've started attending on the weekends. I got her number and fired off a text a few hours later saying 'Hey Miss Motivator, this is Charlie. Save my number
I wasn't able to ask for her schedule yet because I knew she was going to visit a girlfriend so would be out of town for a week or so.
The next weekend, I wasn't able to attend bootcamp because I was at a friend's wedding. She sent me a text saying 'you missed an amazinggg bootcamp today'. I then got her schedule and we set up a date for 2 days time. Unfortunately, logistics were difficult - I'm currently in between jobs and starting a new job in a couple of weeks. The tenancy on my place had also ended so I'm looking for a new place before the new jobs starts. In the mean time, I've had to move out of London and back home with my parents. But I arranged to go for drinks in a bar anyway, hoping I could go back to hers afterwards, as she lives alone. I wish I'd read Chase's post on smoothly inviting yourself back to her place earlier!
The date went ok I think - she offered to show me her palm reading skills so lots of kino. Conversation was good. But I probably should have ended the date sooner than I did - it was 2 and a half hours. We didn't kiss at the end. I had to get the last train home, and (stupidly) instead of walking her to her doorstep, we said goodbye at the train station, which was pretty near her house. I texted the next day to say I enjoyed hanging out and slurring my words with her. She responded positively.
I didn't contact her for 3 days, then texted her yesterday as I was planning to go to a housewarming party in her part of town. I said 'Hey Sarah, hope your week's going great. I'm in __ tonight for a house party! What are you up to?' I realise that party dates are not a good idea, but I was planning to stay at the party for a while and then meet up with her later one-to-one. She responded saying she was going to see a comedian with her girlfriend, but would let me know if she was around later. Sure enough, she texted me later on, saying she'd come and meet me in a bar, as we'd left the house by this time.
She came along to meet me in the bar, but brought her friend with her. Obviously I had to introduce them both to all my friends, when really I wanted to be alone with her. After around 20 minutes at this bar, we decided to move on. We were in the queue for another bar, when her friend suddenly realised she didn't have ID on her. The girl I'm interested in didn't want to leave her friend, so said she was going to walk her home, and they left.
Now I'm not sure how to proceed? On the one hand, the first date went pretty well, and she seemed interested enough to text me and come and meet me in a bar, when she could have fobbed me off. On the other hand, nothing has actually happened between us yet, so I'm worried that I'm heading for the boyfriend/friend zone. I would actually quite like a girlfriend right now and she's really great, but I know I need to sleep with her to have a chance. How would you play this? I'm thinking I should leave it and let her get in touch with me. Surely if she's interested she would text me saying she's sorry she left early last night and propose another time to meet up?
Any advice would be appreciated. Cheers
I met this incredibly hot girl a couple of weeks ago through a fitness bootcamp which I've started attending on the weekends. I got her number and fired off a text a few hours later saying 'Hey Miss Motivator, this is Charlie. Save my number
I wasn't able to ask for her schedule yet because I knew she was going to visit a girlfriend so would be out of town for a week or so. The next weekend, I wasn't able to attend bootcamp because I was at a friend's wedding. She sent me a text saying 'you missed an amazinggg bootcamp today'. I then got her schedule and we set up a date for 2 days time. Unfortunately, logistics were difficult - I'm currently in between jobs and starting a new job in a couple of weeks. The tenancy on my place had also ended so I'm looking for a new place before the new jobs starts. In the mean time, I've had to move out of London and back home with my parents. But I arranged to go for drinks in a bar anyway, hoping I could go back to hers afterwards, as she lives alone. I wish I'd read Chase's post on smoothly inviting yourself back to her place earlier!
The date went ok I think - she offered to show me her palm reading skills so lots of kino. Conversation was good. But I probably should have ended the date sooner than I did - it was 2 and a half hours. We didn't kiss at the end. I had to get the last train home, and (stupidly) instead of walking her to her doorstep, we said goodbye at the train station, which was pretty near her house. I texted the next day to say I enjoyed hanging out and slurring my words with her. She responded positively.
I didn't contact her for 3 days, then texted her yesterday as I was planning to go to a housewarming party in her part of town. I said 'Hey Sarah, hope your week's going great. I'm in __ tonight for a house party! What are you up to?' I realise that party dates are not a good idea, but I was planning to stay at the party for a while and then meet up with her later one-to-one. She responded saying she was going to see a comedian with her girlfriend, but would let me know if she was around later. Sure enough, she texted me later on, saying she'd come and meet me in a bar, as we'd left the house by this time.
She came along to meet me in the bar, but brought her friend with her. Obviously I had to introduce them both to all my friends, when really I wanted to be alone with her. After around 20 minutes at this bar, we decided to move on. We were in the queue for another bar, when her friend suddenly realised she didn't have ID on her. The girl I'm interested in didn't want to leave her friend, so said she was going to walk her home, and they left.
Now I'm not sure how to proceed? On the one hand, the first date went pretty well, and she seemed interested enough to text me and come and meet me in a bar, when she could have fobbed me off. On the other hand, nothing has actually happened between us yet, so I'm worried that I'm heading for the boyfriend/friend zone. I would actually quite like a girlfriend right now and she's really great, but I know I need to sleep with her to have a chance. How would you play this? I'm thinking I should leave it and let her get in touch with me. Surely if she's interested she would text me saying she's sorry she left early last night and propose another time to meet up?
Any advice would be appreciated. Cheers
