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What are your go-to "pet names" for girls, and how soon do you use them?

Atlas IV

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Just curious as it's not often discussed here.

I've experimented with names like kitty, bunny, and babe (or "baby girl" for girls who like to call me daddy).

Pet names seem like they might help with bonding and retention, especially when texting girls after the first lay. But I'm never sure how soon to use them, or which one to use. I guess it depends on the kind of girl she is.

How soon do you switch from calling a girl by her name to calling her a pet name (if at all)? And what are your favourite ones?
 

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Just curious as it's not often discussed here.

I've experimented with names like kitty, bunny, and babe (or "baby girl" for girls who like to call me daddy).

Pet names seem like they might help with bonding and retention, especially when texting girls after the first lay. But I'm never sure how soon to use them, or which one to use. I guess it depends on the kind of girl she is.

How soon do you switch from calling a girl by her name to calling her a pet name (if at all)? And what are your favourite ones?
you can use pet names right away, unless online (i would be careful using them online), there is not such thing of "the right time to use them", is a way of flirting "bonding and retention" is a stretch, but who knows, more like an extension of your own bubble, so maybe...And i have discussed them in some of my posts (don't remember which ones)
 

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Just curious as it's not often discussed here.

I've experimented with names like kitty, bunny, and babe (or "baby girl" for girls who like to call me daddy).

Pet names seem like they might help with bonding and retention, especially when texting girls after the first lay. But I'm never sure how soon to use them, or which one to use. I guess it depends on the kind of girl she is.

How soon do you switch from calling a girl by her name to calling her a pet name (if at all)? And what are your favourite ones?

I personally don't use pet names much.

But it's usually the girl that starts using them first then I reciprocate to match her investment. Or if we've been hanging out for a while I might give her a nickname based of our previous interactions

I also don't really think it helps with retention per say so wouldn't stress to much about it
 

KJ Francis

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I have been called boo, babe, and Master, but it never really felt right to me returning it with something... should get past that though. I tried babygirl once and it went over well. one girl asked me what to call me cause she was trying to get kinky and I couldn't take it seriously... told her to call me "my liege" or "your excellency" hahah

the only one I've actually used consistently is "mami" which I stole from skills. only with girls who speak spanish, but it is usually in a more joking manner while being cocky funny.
 

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Just curious as it's not often discussed here.

I've experimented with names like kitty, bunny, and babe (or "baby girl" for girls who like to call me daddy).

Pet names seem like they might help with bonding and retention, especially when texting girls after the first lay. But I'm never sure how soon to use them, or which one to use. I guess it depends on the kind of girl she is.

How soon do you switch from calling a girl by her name to calling her a pet name (if at all)? And what are your favourite ones?

I've had pet names for girlfriends, but it just doesn't seem the right vibe for a girl you're casually seeing.

It's best imo when the name is affectionate but a bit teasing.
 
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Atlas IV

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Sounds like the consensus here is that they are not really all that important. Good to know I'm not the only one who doesn't use them much.

I'll save them for girls I see regularly, or just when the vibe feels right for it. Thanks for the input, gents.
 

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I've had pet names for girlfriends, but it just doesn't seem the right vibe for a girl you're casually seeing.

It's best imo when the name is affectionate but a bit teasing.
Yeah correct is more of flirting, and a bit creative

My favorite Hungarian... My sexy nurse.... Etc more playful and flirty
 

Will_V

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Yeah correct is more of flirting, and a bit creative

My favorite Hungarian... My sexy nurse.... Etc more playful and flirty

Yeah, one was a slang in her native tongue that was a bit 'ghetto', was kind of funny for me to be using it, we'd both have fun about it.

It's more about a private in-group fun bubble than anything else.
 
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