last 3 girls that i didnt close told me that im too smooth, too confident and relaxed and they get playerish vibe from me.
Example from this saturday, met a cute 8,5 19 yo in the club, stayed with her the whole night, kissed danced etc and even her friend gave us space when she sensed that she is blocking haha. Club is closing soon so a give them a lift home, friend goes out of car home and my girl and i end in isolated place in the car.
Back seat, heavy kissing, touching, kissing her neck, touching boobs and pussy through sweatpants, no resistance. 5 minutes later im fingering her, she gives little resistance, i back off and try again. Fingering her some more, kissing and all of a sudden she backs off and says " does every girl give you that easy?"
I say something funny dont remember and try again, we kiss again, grabbing her bare ass and everything and she said she have to go..her sister called her because she was staying at her place. It was almost 6:30 in the morning, daylight was coming and i agreed. That was it.
I dont think i was being desperate and needy, but maybe i wanted it just little too much because i liked her a lot and she was out of town and going home that day so i wanted to have a good time with her. But maybe again she is too young and unexperienced and it was already too late/ early in the morning.
Should i be slower in escalation next time with girls and bit more afc-ish, play more hard to get.. i dont know anymore
it's a sticking point lately and i need to figure this out.
Example from this saturday, met a cute 8,5 19 yo in the club, stayed with her the whole night, kissed danced etc and even her friend gave us space when she sensed that she is blocking haha. Club is closing soon so a give them a lift home, friend goes out of car home and my girl and i end in isolated place in the car.
Back seat, heavy kissing, touching, kissing her neck, touching boobs and pussy through sweatpants, no resistance. 5 minutes later im fingering her, she gives little resistance, i back off and try again. Fingering her some more, kissing and all of a sudden she backs off and says " does every girl give you that easy?"
I say something funny dont remember and try again, we kiss again, grabbing her bare ass and everything and she said she have to go..her sister called her because she was staying at her place. It was almost 6:30 in the morning, daylight was coming and i agreed. That was it.
I dont think i was being desperate and needy, but maybe i wanted it just little too much because i liked her a lot and she was out of town and going home that day so i wanted to have a good time with her. But maybe again she is too young and unexperienced and it was already too late/ early in the morning.
Should i be slower in escalation next time with girls and bit more afc-ish, play more hard to get.. i dont know anymore
it's a sticking point lately and i need to figure this out.