What Aspect of Game Should I Focus On First?

[BallinJunkie]

Hey guys,

I'm looking forward to truly start practicing game (aka talk to girls for real), but I don't know which aspect of game I should focus on in my current situation. Maybe you guys will be able to help me after reading about it.

First things first, I began reading GC at 16 four years ago (20 yo now), but I wasn't really serious about it. I just liked the validation from girls it gave me when my fundamentals went through the roof. All the girls in my HS were crazy over me. I played the brooding/loner-juvenile-delinquent-yet-intelligent-bad-boy-addicted-to-drugs card and it served me well. But I was also very unhealthy (drugs, skipping school, even though I used to be a grade A student, getting in trouble) and therefore started alienating everybody around me. As much as I hate to admit it, I felt some sort of irrational pride being the fuck-up who once had it all and I preferred isolating myself than socializing.

However, when HS ended, 3 years ago, I decided to change. Kicked the drugs, focused on my grades again. It worked out pretty well honestly, but, to this day, I haven't recovered from voluntary isolation and it stings to be quite honest. I'm still a loner. But, during these 3 years, I became cultivated, better looking,etc. Anyways, I wanna end this dry spell now, I wanna win against depression and therefore, set a plan on how I should attack the puzzle that is "game". Except, I don't know where to focus on first.

Things I got going on for me: Fundamentals (I don't want to brag, but I know I'm good looking, I have a reputation of being the stylish badboy at school,etc only thing is I'm skinny, but not disgustingly so), I'm not afraid of going against the flow of mainstream society ( my trademark since kindergarten actually ), I have loads of byronic flaws which used to mesmerize girls. Also, I'm a super loner, but I'm not awkward, I have basic to decent social skills. My main problem is that my interactions are a bit plain. I don't seem to know how to add that sexy spice to conversations with girls. I'm also not that good at getting to know them. But at least I'm not awkward, It just feels very plain when I interact with girls.


Weaknesses: poor reputation and social proof (my town is only 65000 people, and I went to 3 different schools+ I'm in college) A lot of people seem to know about my past and my current loneliness, not everyone though. People don't actively avoid me though, at least not anymore.
I'm too serious. I have a big problem being playful with girls in a sexy way
Topics often seem boring, conversations do not last long.


Basically, my foot gets through the door (fundamentals) but that's it (game is lacking)



I know this is a long post guys, but given this information, what would you guys focus on first?

 

[andersen09]

If you're a bad boy, experience being the good boy. It sounds simple but it really is.
If you dress dark colors, try brighter colors and dress like a guy who would be friendly, non-judgemental, and warm.
Live on the other side of the spectrum, and naturally yourself will change into the non-judgemental guy, and the game will adapt to you.

And after fully immersing yourself in being the good guy for 3-6 months, you can now choose the character you like and adapt it to your bad boy archetype character.