What choice to make

[Anonymous]

Hey guys,

I've been changing myself for the better for a while, and whilst it is slow going, I am making progress and my confidence has skyrocketed thanks to this site (as well as others) and I'm trying to put all that I learn into practice. However, I'm now in the predicament where I've just gained a qualification to further my career in something I'm truly passionate about and my main priority right now is to get settled in a job within the industry, rather than my current job in retail and move out of my current residence and get a place of my own - I currently live with family (I'm 24). I'm finding it hard to focus on women, mainly because I don't feel satisfied with where I am right now in my life, and I won't until I achieve my goals in terms of career/home.

So my question is this: Should I/Would you wait until you're financially settled, have a place of your own and are feeling content with what you have before you engage women as vigorously as is suggested on this site? Or would you continue to seduce women, and if so, how would you approach the situation I am currently in regarding job/living at home etc?

Cheers,
-P

 

[Thedoctor]

Pinnochio,

Work on both! Your career is important, but so is getting better with women. That's what I love about this site is that a lot of articles can be applied to all different aspects of life. Here's a great one Chase wrote on time efficiency:

https://www.girlschase.com/content/time- ... done-right

When people say they're "too busy" to do something, it's usually just an excuse that allows them to deflect the true reason why they don't want to do something: They are afraid. Everyone, myself included, has probably been guilty of this at some point in their life. But, there is never such a thing as "too busy" if you truly have goals you hope to pursue. At one point in my life, I was undergoing a career change and wanted to take up boxing and still wanted be social and meet some girls. I ended up working two jobs, did 1 - 2 hours of boxing 4 times a week, was hitting the gym 3 nights a week and was still being social and meeting women. How? I wasn't doing anything that was counter-productive to my goals. No TV, pointless web surfing, or anything else that wasn't specifically related to my goals.

In terms of your logistics related to you still living at home, this post should give you some creative ideas:

viewtopic.php?f=3&t=3919

Regards,
-Doc