What do u do when a gal..texts u....will let u know

[Ree]

Will let u know,
oh how i have come to hate those four words..
....every batch of girls i get from daygame...half will say will let u know on the date ask...can this be avoided,and once it occurswhat is the standard operating procedure

Here is my process,please troubleshoot

Ree:hey,nice pic
Gal:thanks
Ree:i was thinking we shoud grab that cofees soon,that sound good to you?
Gal:sure,it definitely does
Ree:hows ur schedule?,when r u frre?
Galtakes an age to repky...then....)will let u know


Shud u
A.Be polite,and ask out again after a period of days(how long)
B.bust her balls and ask again
C.persist
D.do some other stuff(expalin)

 

[Sophisticated Gent]

Ree,

My experience is more with direct contact instead of text but I like to use a statement instead of a question. I can't be for sure but I think Chase suggested this.

Me: Let's get coffee this week.
Her: Sure.
Me: Good then Tuesday at 2:00 pm at Starbucks.

This puts you in a more dominate frame. It is a questions made as a statement. Obviously she can say no but it ups your alpha. Also setting a time and place is stronger. She can always change the time and place. She is more likely to counter offer with a different time if the time is not good. Again you are leading which is what she wants.

SGent.

 

[Lawliet]

Anyway, if I get a girl to agree, aka get to the "sure we can grab that coffee" and then lose her on the date. I'll give it 24 hours and say "comon it's just a quick coffee, if anything is weird you can just tell me you have to leave and wash your cat or something."

Radeng

Said the exact thing to the girl in AR over the phone and she gave in. High five

@Rae
Usually this is a brush off. The idea is if she's attracted, she'll want to see you!
Try to text her with something new invite after a few days or week (depending what her excuse for busy was. ), and calibrate her response.
If it's just busy, she isn't even trying; throw her a ball in court text
Then consider using phone call to bond a little more.
I love going on the phone now

Lawliet

 

[A2daMIR]

Will let u know,
oh how i have come to hate those four words..
....every batch of girls i get from daygame...half will say will let u know on the date ask...can this be avoided,and once it occurswhat is the standard operating procedure

Here is my process,please troubleshoot

Ree:hey,nice pic
Gal:thanks
Ree:i was thinking we shoud grab that cofees soon,that sound good to you?
Gal:sure,it definitely does
Ree:hows ur schedule?,when r u frre?
Galtakes an age to repky...then....)will let u know


Shud u
A.Be polite,and ask out again after a period of days(how long)
B.bust her balls and ask again
C.persist
D.do some other stuff(expalin)

ah... the good ol "will let u know"

When you ask her for a free time to meet, and she says " will let u know", 99% of teh time its not that shes uncertain about her schedule, shes uncertain about MEETING YOU to begin with.

I keep saying this, there isnt a one size fits all formula/response for every situation. Human psychology is a complex system, just like the weather. So many factors go into the weather that its very difficult to predict with pinpoint accuracy, because its a complex system (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Complex_system ). SO when you ask her for her free time and she says he'l llet you know, 99% of the time its because you pulled the trigger too soon.

Reading your post again, i picked up something else, you mentioned this happens during your daygame. Without knowing much, im guessing you saw a girl at the mall, talked for a few second and exchanged number on the whim, and then few texts later you asked her for a date".. Her response is contingent upon your game when you met her. If you had her so hooked and eating out the palm of your hands per say, thats a different story. But if it was just a normal boy meets girl, boy likes girl, boy asks girl for #, boy asks her for a date within hours of texting, then yeah, she's uncertain about the situation, not her schedule.

how many hours elapsed and how many texts were roughly exchanged from teh minute you guys started talking and you asked her out? would it be correct to say maybe 3-4 hours?

Another think, lets go to your texts:

Ree:i was thinking we shoud grab that cofees soon,that sound good to you? (ME: Meh... sounds weak. "I was thinking", and then "sounds good to you?" which youre seeking her validation. Just say " we should grab a coffee sometime", leave it open ended and gauge her raction . Youre telling her you wanna meet her, but in no rush, whenever it happens)

Gal:sure,it definitely does
Ree:hows ur schedule?,when r u frre? (ME: The first part of it was good, asking her schedule, but then youre asking her specifically when she's free. Keep in mind, she's still unsure about it regardless of what she told you earlier. So its good to ask her schedule, in itself, she can answer that.. but when you followup with "when are you free", and all of this following you mentiuoning coffee, she doesnt want to commit to anything. SHe doesnt want to say i have tomorrow night off, because you'll say "ok lets meet tomorrow night", and she'll be like " well not so fast".... so its just easier to say will let you know.)

Galtakes an age to repky...then....)will let u know

So what should you do now? Spend time to actually seduce you. Giving you her phone number doesnt mean as much as it used to, so just because you have her number doesnt mean she wants to bang you. So spend a day or so showing that youre the prize, next time you'll ask her, she'll have a much different response.

 

[Rage]

A2daMIR,

Was reading some of your old posts recently, from a decade ago on the old forums. Welcome, and hope you are doing well man (I would have been 11 at that time btw haha; am 21 now).

-Rage

 

[A2daMIR]

A2daMIR,

Was reading some of your old posts recently, from a decade ago on the old forums. Welcome, and hope you are doing well man (I would have been 11 at that time btw haha; am 21 now).

-Rage

Thanks bro, hope you found something helpful in those. I'll try to be more proactive on this board, was talking to chase and will try to log on more often if my schedule allows. In the meantime, lets spice this place up
It says A2daMIR 11/14/15

 

[Rage]

that's today! Lol ... fucking sick man glad to have you aboard.

 

[A2daMIR]

that's today! Lol ... fucking sick man glad to have you aboard.

Why send pics of yesterday or the day before?

 

[Ree]

Hey..thanx for the responses...yeah..thought u cud use more info

I rarely talk for more than five minutes before getting number,and going...(thought i wasbeing efficient)
....i send ice breaker same day
.....then ask out next day

Shudi game gals morebefore taking numbers,and forhow long
Ifgals aregenuinely in a rush during meet,and i grab nmber qiukly .shud i tryto text morebefore ask out?

 

[Eternity]

Looking forward to your posts A2, definitely a legend in the old days.

P.S Is she your Fiance or is she being naughty

 

[A2daMIR]

Looking forward to your posts A2, definitely a legend in the old days.

P.S Is she your Fiance or is she being naughty

Fiance?? hell no She's a.. umm... friend

 

[Eternity]

That's a nice friend to have...

 

[A2daMIR]

Hey..thanx for the responses...yeah..thought u cud use more info

I rarely talk for more than five minutes before getting number,and going...(thought i wasbeing efficient)
....i send ice breaker same day
.....then ask out next day

Shudi game gals morebefore taking numbers,and forhow long
Ifgals aregenuinely in a rush during meet,and i grab nmber qiukly .shud i tryto text morebefore ask out?

I rarely talk for more than five minutes before getting number,and going...(thought i wasbeing efficient)
Unless youre very skilled, you need to put in some time and effort to get a date with teh girl. If you spend 5 minutes and do a quick number swap, you need to (through text or telephone calls) show her that youre the prize and she should definately grab a coffee or whatever with you. You cant half ass it on both ends, spend a few minutes in daygame to get her #, and after a few texts ask her to meet. Im not saying it never works, all im saying is that the odds of it working are slim

So you send an ice breaker, thats all good and fun, but the girl wants to feel like she knows a little bit about you before meeting you. SO sending her canned ice breakers are god for that purpose alone, to break teh ice, but you need to spend several texts just getting to know her and make her feel comfortable with you.

Shudi game gals morebefore taking numbers,and forhow long

again, this isnt a cooking recipe:
Meet girl
talk for 5 minutes
add phone number and leave in over till ready

Its all about how you can seduce her. You can literally seduce someone in just a few minutes, and some people it takes longer. You need to go with the cues, and all the non verbal communications you pick up from her. Only that determines how long you should talk to the girl, if you feel you have her hooked after 10 minutes, THEN give her your number.

Its important that you UNDERSTAND THE CONCEPT, not just blindly follow routines. Understand why someone does something, not just copy it to the T. FOr example, this happens to me at the gym too, i see a kid come up to me and say what my routine is, or that he's using the same excercises as i do. Although flattered, i tell the kid that what i do for a routine is for my body alone, and based on my strengths and weaknesses of my body. FOr example if i have huge biceps, i might focuz on my triceps more instead, so if he follows my routine, he wont do a balanced bicep routine because he's copying me, and for me, my biceps overpower my tricpes so i do less biceps.

Thats why its important to understand WHY someone does something.

For example, earlier i told you that instead of whatever you were telling the girl, you should say " Whats your schedule like usually?". Do you recall that?... sure its fine if you jut copy it and say that to teh girl, but most importantly, you should understand WHY youre saying this, instead of what you were saying before... (because earlier, you sounded weak, asking her for clarification, and didnt sound confident for example).

Ifgals aregenuinely in a rush during meet,and i grab nmber qiukly .shud i tryto text morebefore ask out?
The answer is yes... but again, understand the cocept of WHY you should text... Dont text more because i said you should text more, and you feel you have to fill a quote of sending 100 texts for example. You should text more in a way to get to know her better nad create rapport, not just to rack up the number of texts you send

 

[asshole]

A2daMIR,

Was reading some of your old posts recently, from a decade ago on the old forums. Welcome, and hope you are doing well man (I would have been 11 at that time btw haha; am 21 now).

-Rage

Thanks bro, hope you found something helpful in those. I'll try to be more proactive on this board, was talking to chase and will try to log on more often if my schedule allows. In the meantime, lets spice this place up
It says A2daMIR 11/14/15

I didn't expect that. Well, I'll take that as my christmas present.

 

[Paulie Walnuts]

Niiiiiice with the pic and the writing on the girl . I remember back when I was still throwing events, chatted up a girl on facebook, picked up her and her girlfriend for said event; then told them both to write: (My name's girl) on their arms/tits and ass.

After a shenanigans filled night (involving guns, water tower swimming, gangbangers, fighting and other crazy shit) I ended up hooking up with one and my mate Greg fucked the other.

Good times