What do you think about her reply?

[andersen09]

So there's a girl I'm talking to. She's about.. 7. My friends said "She's bad as fuck" "She's fucking gorgeous" but idk, to me she's just okay. She's working on her PhD while I'm in undergrad. She was just taking a few refresher courses in my college when we met. And from there it took off. I'm a 1st year in college while she's graduated, but seems to be taking a liking to me. She's beautiful, classy, and clearly the "mother hen" figure among her group. She's also the most beautiful one and classiest.

But with that being said she also has a very strong personality. I seem to attract strong willed women these days for some reason (the one I want to date). Anyway, we held off going out cause it was so hot out. And I said when the weather gets cooler, I'll take her out.

And she told me "okay.. tell me when you want me to dress up for you.. I'll dress cute ", which I said "Good. ".

Recently, I ran into her out unexpectedly. She looked very casual, and looked a bit flustered when she saw me.
She had like this cute clip to have her hair up and I just kind of smiled and commented

"I like your hair"
which she replied, "No my hair isn't like this, I only do this when I'm studying and relaxing"
I just told her "haha okay well, I'll see you soon.. expect my text."
And she just blushed.

I guess though it caught me off guard why she'd say "No my hair isnl't like this"

It's not that serious but just curious.
Any thoughts?

 

[Michal]

Based on the information you provided, it seems that in her mind she (her image) was not at the top level of her attractiveness in that moment so she reasoned why that is the case. Like if you played ping pong and you sucked, while usually you are quite good, someone said "your play style is different today" and you just said "yea, I dont feel that good today"

 

[Fuck This]

Apparently she cares how she looks in front of you. That is good. You have a chance to put her at ease. Those moments are great for a comforting hug. Breaking that touch barrier is important. One memorable hook up, I noticed the woman I'd been sitting next to for 30 minutes got up and did her hair and makeup in the bathroom. I kicked it into high gear, and she was sitting in my lap in 15 minutes.

Don't miss a chance to isolate this woman and escalate. She is giving you signals she wants to be approached. if you don't, she will auto reject. Don't wait for the right moment, MAKE the moment right....

I had an older college student giving me a backrub one Saturday night at her house and I was stupid enough to leave her in an attempt to be "honorable" . I never got another chance there.

 

[andersen09]

Great feedback. Appreciate it gents.

 

[Natureman]

she replied, "No my hair isn't like this, I only do this when I'm studying and relaxing"

Haha, in principle I experience st similar. A few of us were sitting at the table. She was there with a good buddy of hers. They talked about all the things they did together (international trips etc.). Then he mentioned another trip and what the people were doing there so I was now thinking: “Hm, so what kind of relationship do they actually have? That seems too much to me for a friend and friend relationship”. And here she goes: “Not with me.” accompanied by a strong gesture and looking at me. He blushes as it seems she would be ashamed to have something with him and is showing it very insensitively. So, she simply showed she cares rather a lot about what I might think about her when she’s able to even insult a good friend of her. Points for me and with your lady points for you.

 

[andersen09]

she replied, "No my hair isn't like this, I only do this when I'm studying and relaxing"

Haha, in principle I experience st similar. A few of us were sitting at the table. She was there with a good buddy of hers. They talked about all the things they did together (international trips etc.). Then he mentioned another trip and what the people were doing there so I was now thinking: “Hm, so what kind of relationship do they actually have? That seems too much to me for a friend and friend relationship”. And here she goes: “Not with me.” accompanied by a strong gesture and looking at me. He blushes as it seems she would be ashamed to have something with him and is showing it very insensitively. So, she simply showed she cares rather a lot about what I might think about her when she’s able to even insult a good friend of her. Points for me and with your lady points for you.

Haha yeah, I thought it was funny cause this is a girl most guys would get nervous around and she's nervous around me. It was like doing a double take, "wait what? her? nervous? that's quite funny"