what does a monogamous relationship feels like?

[Smith]

Hey guys,

Never been in a serious monogamous relationship, although I've gotten close to it, so just wondering what it feels like and please feel free to share your experience.

I've learned not to do all the bf stuff before sleeping with a girl, but now I don't know what are the bf stuff ur suppose to do for a gf.

so what is a bf suppose to do for a gf? lol

What's the relationship dynamic like? Does chasing still occur?

I feel a serious monogamous relationship is 'unfair' to men, as he literally loses his options and could easily become domesticated. Whereas women in a relationship would still have men chasing after them. Before GC, I would be glad to get into a monogamous relationship with a girl, but now I can see how silly it is to lose all that options unless the girl is of high quality.

- smith

 

[trashKENNUT]

Smith,

It's pretty boring really, unless you have a girl who will support what your cause is. A girl who is there for you. I think one of the biggest lifehacks in life is a women who will be there for you.

Women are men's life cheat codes. It's the same vice versa.

Zac

 

[PinotNoir]

Look up 5 pictures of 1 girl. Only masturbate to those 5 pictures using your non-dominant hand for 6 months. There you go!

No, I joke.

What's the relationship dynamic like? Does chasing still occur?

Oh yes, it's just called a different name: jealousy (and control).

And, the person that gets the most jealous is the chaser.

so what is a bf suppose to do for a gf? lol

Make her feel desired. Be the solid rock to her emotional roller coaster. Give her great sex. If you're not her secret lover, then be someone she would be proud to show off to her friends and family. Be her leader and someone she respects. Give her spontaneous adventure.

(She should also be fulfilling your needs... probably things like making you feel desired, sex, not creating crazy drama, not being a bitch to your friends, etc.)

silly it is to lose all that options unless the girl is of high quality.

Yes, so pick carefully. But, it all depends. It's nice to have stability sometimes, someone to come home to and enjoy holidays with. Someone to do things with and dive into deep conversations/emotions/whatever with.

It just depends on what you want. You can always try it out and end it if it sucks.