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That's a great video, @Kvothe.
Girl on the far left arches her back, sways her pelvis, strokes the mic stand like it's a cock, sticks her leg out, has that really lusty grin on... she's oozing all kinds of horny sexual tells.
Neat comparing her with the blonde in the middle. The middle blonde is cute, swaying her hips, bobbing her shoulders, but she's just not moving in that "I am really aching for it" kind of way. Girl on the left sure is.
But yeah, @James D, it's basically nonverbal signals that you are looking to shag. People exhibit different body language based on what they're out for. If you want to understand this better, try to get yourself into a deep sexual state, then get yourself around a girl who is also in that state, and pay attention to your body language. You will notice yourself moving, doing, speaking in certain ways you normally do not when not in that state. That is you oozing sex.
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Girl on the far left arches her back, sways her pelvis, strokes the mic stand like it's a cock, sticks her leg out, has that really lusty grin on... she's oozing all kinds of horny sexual tells.
Neat comparing her with the blonde in the middle. The middle blonde is cute, swaying her hips, bobbing her shoulders, but she's just not moving in that "I am really aching for it" kind of way. Girl on the left sure is.
But yeah, @James D, it's basically nonverbal signals that you are looking to shag. People exhibit different body language based on what they're out for. If you want to understand this better, try to get yourself into a deep sexual state, then get yourself around a girl who is also in that state, and pay attention to your body language. You will notice yourself moving, doing, speaking in certain ways you normally do not when not in that state. That is you oozing sex.
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Agreed, the girl on the left has it.
Ran across this video of Susanna Hoffs singing "Feel Like Making Love". A little over the top perhaps, but you get the idea
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Thanks for your reply!
I'll try what you said about getting in a sexual state around a girl who's also in and observing my behaviour. Should be interesting to mimick once I find it out.
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thanks for this mate!
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Would those include the things you outlined in the how to be sexy article?
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@James D,
Yes. Obviously when we're talking sexual intent, confidence, and appeal...
www.girlschase.com
... those are internal things (or, two of them are, anyway) but you still need to convey them externally. The way you do that is with nonverbal signals, behavior, voice tone, etc.
Many of these things you can learn to do consciously.
That said, you are always going to tend to be at your best actually being in a sexual state with sexual confidence, just because there are so many little things you will be doing, and things change minute-to-minute... people with good radars can sense if you are genuinely in sexual state and sexually confident or if you are just faking it, too (you can see this with, e.g., strippers, attention whore girls, prostitutes in Thai gogos, etc. Most will be 'fake flirtatious', where they might even be pretty skilled but something feels a bit false about it. But some you will be able to tell right away are genuinely in a sexual state and horny and desirous for it. It's the reason for the phenomenon I discussed in this article and this one).
Chase
Yes. Obviously when we're talking sexual intent, confidence, and appeal...
Sexiness: What It Is & How to Have It
Sexiness is the quality of being carnally desirable. Yet it seems so abstract: why are some people sexy while many aren’t? It all boils down to 3 items: intent, confidence, & appeal. Earlier this year in my article on insider vs. outsider seduction frames, reader JimmyS asked about the crux of...
www.girlschase.com
... those are internal things (or, two of them are, anyway) but you still need to convey them externally. The way you do that is with nonverbal signals, behavior, voice tone, etc.
Many of these things you can learn to do consciously.
That said, you are always going to tend to be at your best actually being in a sexual state with sexual confidence, just because there are so many little things you will be doing, and things change minute-to-minute... people with good radars can sense if you are genuinely in sexual state and sexually confident or if you are just faking it, too (you can see this with, e.g., strippers, attention whore girls, prostitutes in Thai gogos, etc. Most will be 'fake flirtatious', where they might even be pretty skilled but something feels a bit false about it. But some you will be able to tell right away are genuinely in a sexual state and horny and desirous for it. It's the reason for the phenomenon I discussed in this article and this one).
Chase
