What Does It Take To Become One Of The Best?

[Mr.SocialAcceptableHarem]

I hear of PUA’s doing some crazy shit. 8somes, pulling onlyfans/ig models, 3 new lays a week, multiple girlfriends etc.

Not only that but superior social skills and knowledge of social dynamics as well as mastery of fundamentals to the point where you can calibrate yourself perfectly in any situation

And of course you have looksmaxed to the best of your ability

What does it take to become one of the best?
To get as good as Mystery or Austen Summers, or @Chase or @Teevster or @Glow?

I currently work with a coach and approach avg 5x a day and have done 600-700 approaches so far

But I always think I could be doing more

How many approaches should I avg if I want to get really good?

What other habits/mindsets are necessary?

Put this in the beginners section to motivate any other beginners that are like me and are ambitious

 

[Toby2030]

I'm nowhere near the level of the guys you mentioned but I would say I have above average game, and have succeded very quickly in other fields so maybe you can use a thing or two.

You will hit a point where it isn't so much about the amount of approaches you make but how you evalute your previous approaches and what you decide to work on. After a day out try to evaluate where in the interaction you had the most issues, and what you should have done instead. Then work on the issue you faced the most when you go out next time.

Get a coach which are better than you that can show you the ropes and push you in the right direction. You already have this so that's a good start. At some point though, it will probably make sense for you to switch coach to someone with another perspective.

Write field reports and share them so other people can give you feedback. I didn't do this enough and I am still bad at getting it done.

Go out with a mix of people which both are better and worse than yourself. You will learn the most from seeing people in field that are better than you but you will also learn something from teaching people that are worse than yourselves.

Push yourself towards a full understanding of the skill rather than just recipes or tools. You have to know how thing fully work and why they work in order to become great at them.

Always keep a beginner's mind and be open to critique from people around you. Once you think you know something or feel like you have mastered it, your motivation to learn will stop. By keeping a beginner's mind, you will always learn. The truth is that when you think you understand something then you realize there's multiple layers to it.

Always try to expand your horizon in order to get to the next level. Observe the people who is doing well, and try to learn from them. What are the 20% that generates 80% of the results for them? What do they do different than you? Is there anything they do that I could use to improve my game? If yes, then try it out next time you go out.

 

[Police dog]

There is a good book by Malcom Gladwell called “Outliers”. Worth reading for your goal.