I think it's mainly contextual - but holistically I'll attempt to describe my opinion.
There's some girls that you want nothing more than to slam against the wall and rip their pussy apart, call them a slut, and grab them by their whore mouth while you pound them from behind. You cum on her face and slap her with your dick as soon as you're done. It's about you. If she enjoys the ride, good for her. Hard, exciting spikes of sensation.
Then, there's some girls that you want deep, slow, and passionate sex with where you spend lots of time with foreplay and build everything up, let it lower down, build it up again, etc. and keep doing so until you're both so absorbed into the mutual experience that it's essentially a meta-physical sensation. Slow, heavy waves of sensation.
It's about power & dominance, yes.
It's also about connection, spirituality, and the making of life.
Just depends what way you do it.
If you meet a girl that you can develop both types of these with, keep her around >

sounds fun to me.
Hue