Calls & Texts What does this text mean?

[shinshteru]

So I get this girls number and then later on I text her to go out for coffee and ask her what her schedule is like. She mentions she has a boyfriend. Let's see next week. So no contact for a while and then I text her again. Make small talk make her laugh and ask her out for coffee. How is your schedule this week? She doesn't reply. A few days later I text her wondering if she is up for coffee this week? She replies "Sorry but I have been extremely busy and forgot your message my bad. I can't make it this week, I will let you know when I am free so we catch up when both of us are available"


1. "Sorry but I have been extremely busy and forgot your message my bad. I can't make it this week, I will let you know when I am free so we catch up when both of us are available". So what does this really mean?
2. If I text her back something like "lol let's reschedule this at another time then. Tell you what when you figure out your schedule you can shoot me a text." (and then total silence for her) is this a good text or does anyone have something better to text her?

 

[WayOfHand]

1. It means she isn't available/interested atm. If she honestly was busy and wanted to reschedule she would try to set up a more certain date than "somewhere in the future".
2. This is good!

 

[Bick]

I'm probably late by now but:

1. I agree with WayOfHand: not available/interested atm. I get the feeling she "just wants you to be available", so be careful not to get tooled.
2. Text is okay but I think you could do better by busting her balls a little, something like "well little miss busy scheduele, have your secretary call mine and I'll fit you in between meetings. " (use emoticons to make sure she knows you're joking)

General advice: Next time don't ask for her scheduele but dictate yours: "Hey, lets me and you go for a drink. Meet me at that place at that time." (you can even add something like "Wear something sexy "). If she's interested she'll say yes or rescheduele if she's busy, if she doesn't respond or proposes a concrete alternative time move on.