What exactly if Qualifying?

[Hugh]

Hey Guys
Whats the difference between Qualifying and complimenting? For example telling her something like She's a great dancer or something like that. Im having trouble wrapping my head around what exactly qualifying is, maybe I do it unknowingly, but i do know its crucial to seductions. Some clarification here would be great.
Thanks
-Hugh

 

[Richard]

Qualifying is basically getting her to expose qualities that you look for in women - while a compliment is commending her for actually having that quality. One reveals the other rewards.

A qualifier would be something like:

Me: "I only date highly intelligent and driven women - does that sound like you?"
Her: "Ohh totally! I'm a kinesiology major and I've already picked up my master's in it - working my way up to a PhD." <-- she's exposing those qualities that you look for.

A compliment would be something like:

Her: "I'm a kinesiology major and I've already picked up my master's in it - working my way up to a PhD."
Me: "That's a beautiful thing to hear because it stands out. Mostly everybody in our peer group are content with working at McDonalds but here you are striving to make a name for yourself!"

In the complimenting case - you're showing her that you like those qualities she's exposed.