I have watched a lot of videos online and read a lot of pua stuff and everyone tells you not to get into comfort until she is hooked, which is until she asks you a question. But most of the girls I meet cold approaching asks me questions right after my opener. For example, right after I say my opener. She would respond to that and she starts asking me if I'm local or a traveler or some other question but eventually she'll not respond to my text messages, or refuses to go on an instant date after we talk 5-10 mins. How routine should I follow?