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I was in a position recently that left me with questions as to what to do next with a girl, so I wanted to ask your opinions.
I was out the other night at a park with some guy friends and a girl I've known from school. Before our friends joined us, we had a productive discussion with a lot of sexual tension, if I am a judge of such things. I touched her, moved her, all but kissed her because she was adamant about stating that she has a boyfriend. My friends join afterwards and as we're sitting one of them puts his arm around her, starts leaning into her, pretty much cuddling with her on the bench with me on the other side of the girl. She seemed pretty indifferent about it, and if anything was leaning in towards me rather than to him.
Eventually the friend and I take a walk and he asks if I'm ok with the situation, and I say ya I don't mind. He says he's had his hands between her knees and slowly lifting her skirt and she wasn't moving his hand away or anything. "Cool, do what you want man, she's all yours." For some reason or another, he stops talking/cuddling with the girl after we get back. He and his friend leave, leaving me with the girl and one of my friends. She begins to tell us how creepy the guy was and how he was in her personal space and was being perverted and whatnot. And she mentioned again that she has a boyfriend. Mind you, he's not a bad looking guy, and is very built and toned.
Friends come back, and again after a while they walk off but this time I join them. They begin to tell me that I need to make a move with this girl, to touch her more, pretty much saying that I should be doing what he was doing, because apparently he was showing me how its done. This is where I was conflicted. First off, I felt a little insulted but that's not the point. Should I put my arm around her and get into her personal space and do the same thing that my friend was doing after she just said it was creepy? He kept saying that she wasn't moving his hands away but when they left she told me how she felt about it. What would you guys have done in this situation?
P.S. When we went back to get our cars, she gave us each a hug but jumped on me in a hug last. I sorta carried/waddled her to her car in a hug and pushed her back against the door like I was about to kiss her to create some sexual tension between us. I didn't do anything with her because I would feel bad, since this would have been the second relationship this summer that I would have ruined. But I'm hoping this would set up a sexual frame between her and I next time we see each other sometime in the future when she's single.
I was out the other night at a park with some guy friends and a girl I've known from school. Before our friends joined us, we had a productive discussion with a lot of sexual tension, if I am a judge of such things. I touched her, moved her, all but kissed her because she was adamant about stating that she has a boyfriend. My friends join afterwards and as we're sitting one of them puts his arm around her, starts leaning into her, pretty much cuddling with her on the bench with me on the other side of the girl. She seemed pretty indifferent about it, and if anything was leaning in towards me rather than to him.
Eventually the friend and I take a walk and he asks if I'm ok with the situation, and I say ya I don't mind. He says he's had his hands between her knees and slowly lifting her skirt and she wasn't moving his hand away or anything. "Cool, do what you want man, she's all yours." For some reason or another, he stops talking/cuddling with the girl after we get back. He and his friend leave, leaving me with the girl and one of my friends. She begins to tell us how creepy the guy was and how he was in her personal space and was being perverted and whatnot. And she mentioned again that she has a boyfriend. Mind you, he's not a bad looking guy, and is very built and toned.
Friends come back, and again after a while they walk off but this time I join them. They begin to tell me that I need to make a move with this girl, to touch her more, pretty much saying that I should be doing what he was doing, because apparently he was showing me how its done. This is where I was conflicted. First off, I felt a little insulted but that's not the point. Should I put my arm around her and get into her personal space and do the same thing that my friend was doing after she just said it was creepy? He kept saying that she wasn't moving his hands away but when they left she told me how she felt about it. What would you guys have done in this situation?
P.S. When we went back to get our cars, she gave us each a hug but jumped on me in a hug last. I sorta carried/waddled her to her car in a hug and pushed her back against the door like I was about to kiss her to create some sexual tension between us. I didn't do anything with her because I would feel bad, since this would have been the second relationship this summer that I would have ruined. But I'm hoping this would set up a sexual frame between her and I next time we see each other sometime in the future when she's single.
