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Hi Guys,
About 3 months back, i went to a club with a friend. I was dancing good, but there's things that happen.
1)Who's this guy?
2)Why are other girls looking without cheering or smiling at him?
3)Why are the guys not responding to him that much?
So basically, i wasn't known and they wonder who the fuck i am.
I realize I face this for quite a few times. Here's the thing, Life is 1/2 part a "popularity contest".
Even if i am a good dancer, if i have no friends or anybody to show support or "perception of support", Ppl will not respond. Even in dance competition, when i first started, it's the same thing. You need to get to know people, be warm to people. If they spur you on, the better. Some people have all style but no substance. Some people have all substance but if no one gives a fuck, they go home.
So does this mean you need more friends? Yes, but too much style and no substance and the number of your so-called supporters will only support you before they stop after a few times. Your number of people will be stagnant, and there will not be increase in your group of people, and it dies off.
p.s Important, I am not a good dancer, and i advocate there's always need for improvement in any craft you do.
Zac
About 3 months back, i went to a club with a friend. I was dancing good, but there's things that happen.
1)Who's this guy?
2)Why are other girls looking without cheering or smiling at him?
3)Why are the guys not responding to him that much?
So basically, i wasn't known and they wonder who the fuck i am.
I realize I face this for quite a few times. Here's the thing, Life is 1/2 part a "popularity contest".
Even if i am a good dancer, if i have no friends or anybody to show support or "perception of support", Ppl will not respond. Even in dance competition, when i first started, it's the same thing. You need to get to know people, be warm to people. If they spur you on, the better. Some people have all style but no substance. Some people have all substance but if no one gives a fuck, they go home.
So does this mean you need more friends? Yes, but too much style and no substance and the number of your so-called supporters will only support you before they stop after a few times. Your number of people will be stagnant, and there will not be increase in your group of people, and it dies off.
p.s Important, I am not a good dancer, and i advocate there's always need for improvement in any craft you do.
Zac
