What is up with people like eminem?

[Ree]

It is always baffling how super mega celebrities like eminem still get girl trouble....in my opinion eminem is the best rapper ever...but even if you don't agree with that..you agree he is a famous successful rich handsome man.....how then does he have drama...divorcing a wife..getting back together...divorcing again....being jealous...should he not be living a life of abundance .....this doesn't apply to just eminem....all celebrities (oj,Chris brown,Tyson)..who even in their prime had girl drama...what is the psychology behind this...why do some very successful people still have girl problems

 

[Franco]

Ree,

There are basically two parts to dealing with women:

• (1) Pick-up and learning to seduce and sleep with women.
  
  (2) Relationships and learning to manage women and make them happy for a long period of time.

If you are a celebrity or high-profile individual, the first item on the list (seduction and pick-up) immediately become a non-issue because women throw themselves at you. This is pretty obvious, and people are relatively well-aware of the fact that being famous gets you laid relatively easily -- you don't even need to learn game at that point.

However, being a celebrity or famous individual does NOT cover relationship management, which becomes just as important as seduction if you're planning on doing anything other than having lots of one-night stands. This is the part that most people (including celebrities) are unaware of. Relationship management is an entirely different skill set from seduction, and although learning seduction can help you with some aspects of understanding relationship management, it is by no means a replacement for it.

This is why you'll often see celebrities have just as much if not more trouble with relationships than the average person; women constantly throw themselves at these men, but they have no idea how to keep these women around since they have so much abundance. It's easier for them to just move on and sleep with more women since that aspect is automatically covered for them while relationship management is not.

It's an interesting dilemma, but as long as you understand that relationship management is separate from seduction (even if they share a few common traits), then you'll know why being a celebrity or famous individual is not going to help you understand how to keep a woman happy for a long period of time.

- Franco

 

[Bboy100]

Simply put, a lot of celebrities have emotional issues. Namely the type which create dysfunctional relationships, or leave them unable to genuinely connect with women and experience a deep level of intimacy. There's quite a large variety of them. Being a celebrity does not help with this aspect. Discovering those issues (most people are unaware they have them), then addressing them directly is the only way to solve them.

And even if they're completely emotionally healthy, there's also another side to this coin. Once you've formed a real connection with someone, its hard to let them go. They become important to you. If you've had a girlfriend or wife of 10 years, you can't just dump her on the spot because you don't like how she's behaving. Sure,a celebrity can get a women just like her or better the next day, but they can't get the feeling of connectedness, intimacy and love which they lost to come with it. The only way to do that is to start anew and invest an equal amount of time+effort into this new relationship. As such, if anyone, even a celebrity, is in a longer relationship with someone, that person becomes valuable to them, no matter what kind of other mating options they have.