What kinds of girls are you guys mostly attracting?

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Thread based off of one of Chase's latest articles:

https://www.girlschase.com/content/you-a ... -kind-girl

We have a lot of experienced players on here so I thought I'd ask you guys about what kinds of girls you attract but before I do that, answer these questions as well if you can:

1. What kind of a look do you have? (your ethnicity and style, no need to go into too much detail if you value your privacy, I understand that)

2. What country are you in?

3. What kinds of girls do you attract?

Since I started the thread, I'll go first.

1. 6'2, Indian, and guess I dress more on the preppy side.

2. USA, northeast, NYC.

3. Girls with dark hair and slightly tanned skin. Mainly Mediterranean women but also some latinas, Middle Eastern women, and even some white women that fit that look. They seem to give it up the easiest but I think it's also because I am in a city that has a ton of women with that sort of a look.

 

[Smurf]

Wouldn't call myself super experienced, but I've had enough experience to see a pattern.

1. African American, with slightly hipster look, asshole type humor, sarcasm, somewhat play the dumb jock angle as I'm decently fit.

2. Live in the mountain West of the US, so there's an abundance of vegan, hipster, femenist types.

3. Hipster types, shy girls, high sex drive girls, introverts or extreme extroverts, because I'm kind of both myself.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Wouldn't call myself super experienced, but I've had enough experience to see a pattern.

1. African American, with slightly hipster look, asshole type humor, sarcasm, somewhat play the dumb jock angle as I'm decently fit.

2. Live in the mountain West of the US, so there's an abundance of vegan, hipster, femenist types.

3. Hipster types, shy girls, high sex drive girls, introverts or extreme extroverts, because I'm kind of both myself.

You seem to know your shit on here so I always considered you super experienced.

After reading your posts and seeing you mention your location, you must be doing really well in the mountain west. I've heard black guys have it very easy there, especially in states like Colorado.

 

[Smurf]

I guess so, I've never gamed anywhere else so I can't say that's wrong or right. I do get decent results out here, it's just a slower city that's growing.

I've had several natural friends here, two of the best being white and Spanish, both cleaned up. The white one moved to Arizona and said it's terrible, spanish one is in a relationship. The thing that seems to be holding my game back is not being an alpha personality. I still get mad attraction, but I'm starting to get annoyed at my lack of attention if I'm with an alpha. Definitely going to work on this as my next step.

Jake.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I guess so, I've never gamed anywhere else so I can't say that's wrong or right. I do get decent results out here, it's just a slower city that's growing.

I've had several natural friends here, two of the best being white and Spanish, both cleaned up. The white one moved to Arizona and said it's terrible, spanish one is in a relationship. The thing that seems to be holding my game back is not being an alpha personality. I still get mad attraction, but I'm starting to get annoyed at my lack of attention if I'm with an alpha. Definitely going to work on this as my next step.

Jake.

Does your "Spanish" friend actually look white or is he darker skinned?

 

[Hue]

1). Caucasian, blonde hair, blue eyes, skinny and 6'1". I dress on the preppier side, but always try to throw in something with street wear or a unique item. I'm both extroverted and introverted depending on my mood, though I've seen more results from when I'm extroverted.

2). U.S.A. Midwest

3). While I've hooked up with mostly caucasian sorority girls, I've seen the most signs of attraction from african american girls. Where I spend most of my time they're a minority, though.
I go for cold approaches at bars mainly.
Guys I'm friends with similarly hook up with mostly sorority girls, but they stick to social gaming.

 

[Smurf]

Nahh, he looks pretty exotic to be honest.

 

[Hue]

Jake D,

You said you pull a lot of hipster types.
I don't meet that many of them because of my social circle / choice of scene at night, but I always found "hipster girls" to be more warm / less gamey, and to have great fashion sense. One girl I went on a date with before getting into GC had really cool interests in art and philosophy too, but I didn't know what I was doing enough to smoothly get her.
This could totally just be my inexperience with this type of women, but those traits always made me attracted.

Other than the cliche, "coffee shops", where do you personally meet hipster type girls?

Hueman

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

1). Caucasian, blonde hair, blue eyes, skinny and 6'1". I dress on the preppier side, but always try to throw in something with street wear or a unique item. I'm both extroverted and introverted depending on my mood, though I've seen more results from when I'm extroverted.

2). U.S.A. Midwest

3). While I've hooked up with mostly caucasian sorority girls, I've seen the most signs of attraction from african american girls. Where I spend most of my time they're a minority, though.
I go for cold approaches at bars mainly.
Guys I'm friends with similarly hook up with mostly sorority girls, but they stick to social gaming.

Are you in a fraternity yourself?

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Nahh, he looks pretty exotic to be honest.

That is surprising, I thought that with the whole immigration issue, it would be tough for an "exotic" looking guy to do well in Colorado.

 

[Hue]

Oh Pry,

Technically, no.

My fraternity at my old school was kicked off, and I'm no longer considered a brother by the fraternity as an organization. However, I still consider myself one, as do all of my brothers who were also kicked off. When I go back for visits, girls are actually into the fact that we're kicked off because its bad.

Now that I'm at a new school, I have seen both good and bad things from not being in one when it comes to sorority girls.

When I get invited to greek life events, I'll tell a girl that I'm not a Phi Psi or whatever, and they'll either think I'm kidding or assume that I have some other kind of worth for being a non greek that got invited to the party.

When I'm in class/at a bar, sorority girls are way less receptive.
Anyone that's been around greek life knows this: most people in greek life are more judgmental with non greeks (at least for a period of time), and tend to look down on people that didn't rush/pledge anywhere. Hence the acronym, GDI (God Damn Independent).
Which is retarded, greek life isn't exactly cheap or for everybody.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Oh Pry,

Technically, no.

My fraternity at my old school was kicked off, and I'm no longer considered a brother by the fraternity as an organization. However, I still consider myself one, as do all of my brothers who were also kicked off. When I go back for visits, girls are actually into the fact that we're kicked off because its bad.

Now that I'm at a new school, I have seen both good and bad things from not being in one when it comes to sorority girls.

When I get invited to greek life events, I'll tell a girl that I'm not a Phi Psi or whatever, and they'll either think I'm kidding or assume that I have some other kind of worth for being a non greek that got invited to the party.

When I'm in class/at a bar, sorority girls are way less receptive.
Anyone that's been around greek life knows this: most people in greek life are more judgmental with non greeks (at least for a period of time), and tend to look down on people that didn't rush/pledge anywhere. Hence the acronym, GDI (God Damn Independent).
Which is retarded, greek life isn't exactly cheap or for everybody.

No need to tell me about it, I've run into that issue.

I've actually been with sorority girls fresh out of college and one time a sorority girl that was spending a summer interning in NYC, think it's doable as long as you can get them away from their tight knit crowds.

 

[Seppuku]

Haha interesting!

Oh Pry I don't know why I had always assumed you were American Black. Isn't it you who is so much into blonde girls?

1. I'm 5'9'', greyish hair, relatively thin (76 kg). Running on 48 yo, but regularly told I look like late 30s. I dress typically with black leather shoes, tight trousers, Lacoste polo and leather black jacket. Wearing sunglasses.
2. A conservative middle eastern country.
3. I have been mostly with asian girls and a few african black girls, but this is mainly dictated by the demographics here. However I suspect that my game is now fine tuned right for these types of women. Sort of the opposite of Chase article. External factors (i.e. demographics) dictated which girls. Then my game adjusted to these.

Looking forward to see more guys answering the questions.

Seppuku

 

[Smurf]

Jake D,

You said you pull a lot of hipster types.
I don't meet that many of them because of my social circle / choice of scene at night, but I always found "hipster girls" to be more warm / less gamey, and to have great fashion sense. One girl I went on a date with before getting into GC had really cool interests in art and philosophy too, but I didn't know what I was doing enough to smoothly get her.
This could totally just be my inexperience with this type of women, but those traits always made me attracted.

Other than the cliche, "coffee shops", where do you personally meet hipster type girls?

Hueman

Right, yeah, they can be more warm most definitely. In my opinion they are generally more intelligent type girls as well.

You're gonna be looking in pretty stereotypical places to be honest. Coffee shop, yeah, as well as artsy districts of towns (art walks, organic restaurants and supermarkets), poetry slams, bands playing whose name you've never heard of.

What helped me was working in a district where there was an abundance of these types. It helped me pin down how these girls are in general.

What's nice is these girls are usually pretty open sexually. Usually into some spectrum of BDSM. Two things specifically I'd watch out for are: crazies, and taking what they say at face value. There's a lot of bitter, crazy ones in this subculture. They also have strong opinions they feel the need to uphold, specifically about feminism and not feeling used. Of course, this is usually the opposite in sex - they like it rough, and suddenly respecting women isn't all that important to them. That's sex though, I wouldn't try and intentionally get into a frame battle with one of these outside the bedroom.

 

[Hue]

On one note, I just want to say that "a kind of girl" (a group or subgroup) will still vary from individual to individual, or else it's just blatant stereotyping.

Jake D,

You're gonna be looking in pretty stereotypical places to be honest. Coffee shop, yeah, as well as artsy districts of towns (art walks, organic restaurants and supermarkets), poetry slams, bands playing whose name you've never heard of.

Organic supermarkets, I could definitely fuck with that. Still haven't tried super markets in general, so I'll put that on my to do list.

Poetry slams I was thinking about too. I really enjoy freestyling so that could be a fun way to meet women.

Bands I've never heard of- that could cost me a penny. There is one place close to my house that's no tickets no cover, but fat chicks looove going there.

What's nice is these girls are usually pretty open sexually. Usually into some spectrum of BDSM. Two things specifically I'd watch out for are: crazies, and taking what they say at face value. There's a lot of bitter, crazy ones in this subculture. They also have strong opinions they feel the need to uphold, specifically about feminism and not feeling used. Of course, this is usually the opposite in sex - they like it rough, and suddenly respecting women isn't all that important to them. That's sex though, I wouldn't try and intentionally get into a frame battle with one of these outside the bedroom.

You don't say (;

I also read that vegans and vegetarians have more stamina in bed somewhere.

Yeah I could see sexual talk going poorly if they were feminist type, but also see a woman try to dominate in the bed room for some really intense sex.

Thanks for the info bruddah.

 

[Fuck This]

1. What kind of a look do you have? (your ethnicity and style, no need to go into too much detail if you value your privacy, I understand that)
I'm a 6'1" shaved bald with a goatee. Early 40's. Weigh in at 218 lbs, but I've been as high as 250 in the last 2 years. Generally dress in button down collar shirt, and blue jeans. usually running shoes The cute bank teller a few years ago admitted to describing me to her friends as "That Wrestler looking dude". My demeanor is generally intense , but I have an easy smile which tends to put people at ease. However I've been told I am intimidating.
2. What country are you in?
West Coast of the United States in a town of 70,000 45 miles from a major metropolitan city

3. What kinds of girls do you attract?
Athletic runner girls - Social circle
Older Independent women (50's)
Overweight 30 year olds
Lots of blondes lately.
Few latinas, although I shy away from that group.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Haha interesting!

Oh Pry I don't know why I had always assumed you were American Black. Isn't it you who is so much into blonde girls?

Way too late in responding to this but no, I am not black, if I was black then a few blonde girls would have hooked up with me out of liberal guilt and to prove that they are "not racist", same shit does not apply to Indian people.

 

[headsup38]

I get called a player a lot, but I don't consider myself one. I'm not like anything the guy at the VIP that hung out with Kimbo Slice that took girls home with him every single night

1. Asian looking. Only 60 inches tall. Medium build. Late 30s. Prefers Aloha or solid color button-down shirts and long pants. Thinning hair despite having a face that people think I'm late 20s-early 30s at most. Sometimes mistaken for a teenager which is why I try not to wear ball caps(especially backwards).

2. USA. Southern California

3. I have always drawn the girl-next door religious types. Would do very well with the girls who were from the LDS church. I grew up in a neighborhood with a lot of Mormons. Race-wise, it's an even split. A third Asian, a third white and a third Latina. Used to draw athletic girls because everyone played sports in high school but don't get looks from the Brandi Chastain crowd anymore. Now I'm attracting more career-oriented women like doctors and entrepreneurs. Curiously I do very well with tall girls despite my stature. My GF in junior high was a foot taller than me and we were dancing partners and my GF in high school was on the basketball team. I can still draw interest from that group as some of my more recent suitors were as tall as 5'10."