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What look should one go for in order to maximize chances of success?

Professor Oak

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I don't have my own style yet. I'm not asking about what clothes should I get, but what look/style I should go for for maximum chances of success? I mean should I go for the bad boy look? Maybe something else?
 

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Depends on the type of women you are hitting on. Some women really like the cowboy look, some like the gangster look.

For the widest appeal you can do the “Hollywood/GQ bad boy” type look.

How does Hollywood/GQ bad boy type look look like?
 

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Whatever clothes you find Russell Brand / Brad Pitt wearing outside of the set.

Casual, rakish, colorful, lot of accessories, sexy facial hair.
So I should dress like Russell Brand / Brad Pitt outside of the set. Got it
 

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If you are looking for other people to tell you what LOOK to have you will look disingenuous, insincere and try-hard. It comes down to the old maxim "do you want to LOOK rich or actually BE rich?" Otherwise you are just playing "dress-up"

I remember at a concert, a couple of girls asked ME to ask the performer if he would join us down the street for a beer after the show because they said "you look legit". Long story short he and the two girls and I ended up at his hotel room later that night....

Your look should reflect what you aspire to be, while being un-flamboyant and over the top. You don't want your look to override your personality. It's like frosting on a cowpie. Once they get past the surface, they realize you are shit....
 

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Professor Oak

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If you are looking for other people to tell you what LOOK to have you will look disingenuous, insincere and try-hard. It comes down to the old maxim "do you want to LOOK rich or actually BE rich?" Otherwise you are just playing "dress-up"

I remember at a concert, a couple of girls asked ME to ask the performer if he would join us down the street for a beer after the show because they said "you look legit". Long story short he and the two girls and I ended up at his hotel room later that night....

Your look should reflect what you aspire to be, while being un-flamboyant and over the top. You don't want your look to override your personality. It's like frosting on a cowpie. Once they get past the surface, they realize you are shit....
I'm a beginner in pick up, so I think early wins like getting numbers and dates are way more important than being genuine atm. Thats because early wins will give a lot of confidence which will lead to more success, meanwhile early loses will do the opposite. So maximizing early wins is the most important thing, even if they will think I'm disingenuous down the line. Also I don't have my own style yet and I need to start somewhere.
 
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I'm a beginner in pick up, so I think early wins like getting numbers and dates are way more important than being genuine atm. Thats because early wins will give a lot of confidence which will lead to more success, meanwhile early loses will do the opposite. So maximizing early wins is the most important thing, even if they will think I'm disingenuous down the line. Also I don't have my own style yet and I need to start somewhere.
This is a good article on the basics. I think clothing that fits and functions is more important than the label it has on it.

 

Professor Oak

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This is a good article on the basics. I think clothing that fits and functions is more important than the label it has on it.

Why not both?

Also I'm looking for how to dress in a particular style, not what clothes to get. That will be the next step.
 

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op out of curiosity i went to your started thread, none of them is about being out there gaming, are you out there gaming, this is like 5 post about the same style stuff..... When was the last time you went out cold approaching??
 
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