So this girl that I've been talking to me seems to have grown a bit distant. The first time we hung out we had sex, and she had told me that she liked me and I told her that I liked her. For the next few days we were texting eachother a lot and she was the one initiating. The first time we had sex was on a friday and we basically talked the entire weekend, anyway so i hit her up tuesday and so she ignores me. I blow it off and wait for her to text me so the following saturday she hits me up again, ask to have sex and so we do it again. The following tuesday I text her "hey" and she ignores it. I wasnt going to contact her until she got back to me so then she ended up texting me the following saturday night asking "what i was doing" I initially ignored the text and she then called me 5 minutes later asking me what I was doing. I explained to her that I was out of town for the weekend to which she replied was stupid. Anyway she then told me the reason she called me was to bc she heard my fraternity was having a party and she wanted to know if she could come and she then asked to me to find out for her, which I did. Anyway a week goes by and I decided to see what she was doing the following saturday and so I texted her "What are you doing tonight?". She ended up responding 5 hours later at 10:40 pm, telling me she didnt know what she was doing and asked me what I was doing. I was kind of annoyed at the fact that she texted me 5 hours late and so I chose not to even respond, given that she seemed to have no problem ignoring my text. If she werent interested I doubt she would have even replied back at all, but then at the same time maybe I was her last resort for the night, so I'm so confused. I honestly had genuine feelings for this girl at first, but I now I just want to keep her around for the sex. And so this is where I stand now, so what should I do next to keep this going? It is also quite likely that ill run into her on campus so Im guessing if thats the case Id just talk to her as if nothing even happened.
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Way too many red flags, NEXT her.
She's flip flopping, flaky, hiding that she likes you, paranoid about what you are doing, etc. Absolutely do not get into a relationship with this girl, it's going to be magnified 10x in a relationship and she will cause so much drama it will pull your hairs out. I wouldn't even keep her around if you genuinely like her.
When you do NEXT her she is going to totally change her attitude and be super sweet, and start chasing you. It'll feel like all the problems you had with her and frustrations will be gone, you'll feel validated and tempted to give her another chance. Do not do this. Move on.
She's flip flopping, flaky, hiding that she likes you, paranoid about what you are doing, etc. Absolutely do not get into a relationship with this girl, it's going to be magnified 10x in a relationship and she will cause so much drama it will pull your hairs out. I wouldn't even keep her around if you genuinely like her.
When you do NEXT her she is going to totally change her attitude and be super sweet, and start chasing you. It'll feel like all the problems you had with her and frustrations will be gone, you'll feel validated and tempted to give her another chance. Do not do this. Move on.