What should I do?

[novax]

I'm in a bit of a predicament. I've had my eyes on this girl ever since she started working with me a month ago. She messaged me last week. We talked exchanged numbers asked her out on a date she blew it off. I have been talking to her at work, and texts. She never initiates texting,I always have too. She looks at me at work then quickly looks away, but she does not seem to be interested in me. She seems really shy. Today girls at work came up to me, and told me to "keep doing my thing" because she is into me. The thing is I feel like I am chasing her. I feel like I am bugging her when I text her. I feel like im bugging her when I even talk to her at work. I don't know what to do. She quits talking to me after about 5-10 texts. I feel like crap, because I have to ask for advice on an online forum because I don't know what to do. The women who I have been with in the past basically just came to me, and now that I actually have to do some thinking I am lost. Should I ask her on another date? Should I ask her why shes so shy? Should I play it cool for a day, and just talk to her at work, and refrain from texting her? Im getting huge mixed signals. I like her alot, and I think about her most of the time. I do not want to be that crazy guy that blows up her phone, and annoys her, but on the other hand I want to at least try, because girls at work are saying she is into me.

Any tips/advice would be appreciated

 

[Mr. oblivious]

From what i can see this girl is probably inexperienced so she is shy etc. doesn't know what to do

Anyways this is what i would do

1. Stop texting her
2. Probably try talk to her more in real life and maybe after work invite her to have coffee at the place right next to your work afterwards
3. Try deep dive and implement the technique you may find on the board and articles build a connection
4.try utilize texting as a form of setting up dates not rapport building etc. (after you get to know her in person sent her a text related to what you did e.g. if you gave her a nickname send her a text going " Hey ___ , blah blah " something she will reply too then send her a follow up like "I think its about time we went out for coffee hows your schedule looking" hopefully she will reply giving you her schedule if she doesn't just leave her a open message and move on to opening other girls (no need to waste all your time and effort on one girl if its not working out just move on if she want you she will probably do something eventually)


If you look through the forums there is probably a dozen of post similar to this you could check their responses