What the hell do u Talk about during nightgame

[Ree]

Hey,i come from a background of daygame...recently started doing nightgame to just sort of step out of my comfort zones.....i have foundout that unless im dealing with very high calibre driven women thesort of conversationsthat i have during daygame fail during nightgame
(what do u do,how long have u been doing it,what wud u rather be doing ?)

The target usually autorejects ,gets bored or says im asking too many questions.....what do u guys usually talk about during nightgame?

Plus i wud want to request for afield report that had like a very detailed nightgame conversation example
Thanx

 

[foggy]

When I first meet a girl, the first part of the interaction is usually us talking about nothing in particular. We're flirting, joking around with each other, having fun and establishing the frame of the interaction. This is the part where youre building some attraction. Then after that I move onto getting to know the girl and establishing rapport (but still throwing in light, silly topics once in a while too).

The reason girls are saying you're asking them too many questions is because when you talk to them, its feeling like a job interview to them.

 

[Bboy100]

Ree,

First off, it depends on the venue. If you're in a very high energy dance club with a million different things grabbing her attention and she's in "party mode" where she's just screaming, taking shots and dancing her ass off, and shooting down 10 different guys per minute, having any type of deep and meaningful conversation is very difficult. Its best to just be flirty, playful, tease her a little bit etc. Basically stick to what Chase calls "Repartee" in his book. Once you reach the hook point, try to move her. This will (hopefully) snap her out of autopilot and communicate to her that she's actually going to have a real conversation with you now. Alternatively, you could just grab her phone number and leave or if you're escalating on the dance floor, you might even try to pull.

As for lounges and lower energy bars, I feel like its similar to Day Game (although I haven't really done much Day game, so I could be wrong!). You could easily talk about the same type of stuff because people are going to be more open to conversation. The one thing to be aware of is that you're also probably working with a different target audience. In Day game, its going to be all types of different girls. It depends on where exactly you're talking to women and which one's you choose to approach. Whereas at bars, its mostly going to be girls in their early-mid 20s. So again, you have to tailor your conversation to fit things they can relate to.

I don't have a field report I can link you cause most of mine don't include too much conversation (except for the parts I have questions about/messed up), but here's a convo example Chase wrote:
https://www.girlschase.com/content/conversation-example

 

[Ree]

hey bboy and backstory ...thanks for ur replies
what u guyz r saying is true....i....
i understand what ur saying is i shud
approach.repartee.move.rapport
as opposed to trying to jump from the approach to deep diving....
the conversation example by chase is what usually works for me during daygame...i guess my problem is the repartee(talking about nothing)...lol.....cud u guys give me a short conversation example of how u wud talk about nothing...

 

[Troy]

http://goo.gl/F492h0 get that book " Make Girls Laugh ".

Troy

 

[Bboy100]

The first thing you have to do is exude a playful/moderately high energy vibe. This does 90% of the work for 'you. Without it, what you say might sound retarded or just straight up creepy. If her response is "What?" Or she gives you a look like "Wtf are you talking about?" your facial expressions and body language is probably off. And she probably thinks you're either being serious or it sounds fake/forced. ...Or she might just not be interested.

Having said that, here's an example:

Guy: Eww that drink looks really weird! Did someone spike it?

Girl: Haha, no!

Guy: I dunno...that bartender looks pretty sketchy...he looks like he's up to something!

Girl: Nooo, I know that bartender, he's really cool.

Guy: Uh oh...you're one of those girls! Lemme guess, you also know the bouncers, the manager, the dj and half the crowd by first name right? <----This can be pretty assholish, so your tonality is important here. It's gotta be obvious that you're just teasing her.


Notice...none of these statements are laugh out loud funny. They certainly can be (as long as you're not being an entertainer/comedian). But usually, they're more playful than anything else.

 

[Ree]

thanks troy...thanks bboy...guess my problem was being too serious....hehehe...cant wait for saturday