What to do if a girl trying to bring her friend to a date??

[Anonymous]

Here is the story, a girl I have been gaming, we went out like twice, ( didn't even kissed but I have tried) most my dates end up with a make out except this girl who give me a lot of shit test, but kissing or not didn't bather me at this moment since I have fun but that's not my question. So I have pushed her a little bit by distance my self from her and getting busy, now she start caring and asking me if we can hangout this Saturday night. I am aware that a friend of her are visiting her tomorrow and she is staying with her for like 8 days ( both girls from Austria). so I asked her if she is going to come alone, and she said that she is bringing her friend because she can not leave her alone and I never been in situation where I went on a date with a girl and she bring her friend, so anything didn't and told her that I will let her know what's up later.


My thoughts are is just to tell her that something come up and I can not make it and just go out Saturday night with friend and game other girls and keep that girl's contact for later when she is alone or what ever ( I am ready to walk out anytime)0

What do you think guys?

 

[DLegend]

Hey I'll help you shed some light here.

First off you've gone to 2 dates with her, and have not had sex with her, which is a big NO NO.

You said you've tried to kiss her, although I'm not sure if you mean she rejected your kiss, or you haven't yet done so.

It seems like when you were gaming this chick, you didn't elicit the right vibe with her. You didn't elicit the, "Lover" vibe... More like the "Friend" vibe.

If you did the former, not only would you have bedded this girl, she wouldn't be taking her friend over to your place, because that's just too many complications if she did want to have sex with you.

Truth is, if you accept, it'd be like a friendly gathering.

So if you do decline, don't make up an excuse if it's a lie. Be honest in your intentions and warm in your tone, she'll understand... And if she doesn't well, FUCK THAT BITCH.

My 2 cents, DL