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There will be some girls whom try to accuse you using a serious tone/facial expression. They will try to ask you to stop contact with other girls or they will ask you to do things, and they do it good by using "truths".
This can be very deceiving, because she's using "truths".
When you on the receiving end of this, stop, look at what you have done and not done, and ask yourself where are you in a stage of relationship with her.
Is it,
Pre Intimacy?
During Intimacy?
Post Intimacy?
It depends on each stage. Given an example
Pre Intimacy Stage,
She knows you like her, and if she doesn't, she test you. She gives you an 'ultimatum'. She gives you the anger look. The "Fuck" face if you wanna call it, What do you do? Step back, Know which stage you are with this girl. Chances are she's experienced, and if worse, dramatic as well. Not most of them are dramatic but the negative tone it is, the more you know something is screwy and wrong.
During Intimacy,
This is more likely to happen if you have not make her comfortable before you isolate her. She will tend to be more close off than usual, having this firm voice telling you she wants to go home.
Do your best to persist, and keep a mental note if this fails.
Post Intimacy,
She wants you to help her with her life and she brings her problems to you. and if she's unstable kind of girl, she will be aggressive. Depends on if you in a relationship or not, but most of the time, it is expectation setting. There are some which is she asking you to do things for her, and she will use "truths" to sway you.
Don't be fool, Step back, Check on your expectation setting, and why she want this odd things. Then it's on you to make decisions. There's no right or wrong in rejecting her needing certain things.
Zac
This can be very deceiving, because she's using "truths".
When you on the receiving end of this, stop, look at what you have done and not done, and ask yourself where are you in a stage of relationship with her.
Is it,
Pre Intimacy?
During Intimacy?
Post Intimacy?
It depends on each stage. Given an example
Pre Intimacy Stage,
She knows you like her, and if she doesn't, she test you. She gives you an 'ultimatum'. She gives you the anger look. The "Fuck" face if you wanna call it, What do you do? Step back, Know which stage you are with this girl. Chances are she's experienced, and if worse, dramatic as well. Not most of them are dramatic but the negative tone it is, the more you know something is screwy and wrong.
During Intimacy,
This is more likely to happen if you have not make her comfortable before you isolate her. She will tend to be more close off than usual, having this firm voice telling you she wants to go home.
Do your best to persist, and keep a mental note if this fails.
Post Intimacy,
She wants you to help her with her life and she brings her problems to you. and if she's unstable kind of girl, she will be aggressive. Depends on if you in a relationship or not, but most of the time, it is expectation setting. There are some which is she asking you to do things for her, and she will use "truths" to sway you.
Don't be fool, Step back, Check on your expectation setting, and why she want this odd things. Then it's on you to make decisions. There's no right or wrong in rejecting her needing certain things.
Zac
