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Ever since growing up in the Bay Area around a lot of Asian and White people I found my ethnic background to be very limiting when it came to connecting with people. Despite what is said about the Bay Area being liberal and open minded, I found that there were a lot of closet racists and people who weren't that open to meeting others. I had problems making friends and teachers in school often treated me much worse than my other classmates even though I did well academically. Quite a few bad experiences piled up, a lot of which included teachers showing outright bias against me to other kids treating me as their inferior.
Men of my heritage (South Asian) have the worst reputation with women in that area of California, I would not go back there if my life depended on it now even though that is where my family lives. For a while I thought the problem was something I could control. I was somewhat of a nerd and I didn't have the muscle tone to make my classically handsome but in my teenage years when I did get better looking I noticed that it was just black girls, mexican girls, and brown girls who were giving me any attention. With White girls I had some success with a few European foreign exchange students (dated this German girl) but White American girls in the Bay Area are very judgmental towards anyone that is Brown, they simply won't hook up with a guy like that even if he looked like Mohinder Suresh from Heroes (NBC Series). Then high school ended and I escaped the Bay Area for good and went to school on the other side of the country.
Throughout my years in the game I have seen that Asian girls aren't that receptive to me but I don't really care since I am not into Asian girls. With White girls I have noticed that foreign ones from Europe are just as receptive to me as Brown girls but White American girls avoid me especially if they are the kind in a sorority, involved with cheerleading, or just any that would be a part of the cool crowd in college. I always wanted to be in a relationship with the All American kind of girl who is in a sorority and comes from a suburban family, it is just something that I wanted.
I have no idea how to get these kinds of girls. Most of the times I feel like even if I had a job that paid me half a million dollars and looked like Mohinder Suresh I still wouldn't have a chance with these girls because they have pre-judged me in their heads as being someone they would never date. I know that the girls I am going after are obsessed with their status and only care about how their friends and social circle looks at them so dating a guy of my color would end up messing up their status but I want to know how to get around this major barrier and if it even possible to do so.
American women get a lot of hate on PUA sites but I don't care because I am just into them.
Men of my heritage (South Asian) have the worst reputation with women in that area of California, I would not go back there if my life depended on it now even though that is where my family lives. For a while I thought the problem was something I could control. I was somewhat of a nerd and I didn't have the muscle tone to make my classically handsome but in my teenage years when I did get better looking I noticed that it was just black girls, mexican girls, and brown girls who were giving me any attention. With White girls I had some success with a few European foreign exchange students (dated this German girl) but White American girls in the Bay Area are very judgmental towards anyone that is Brown, they simply won't hook up with a guy like that even if he looked like Mohinder Suresh from Heroes (NBC Series). Then high school ended and I escaped the Bay Area for good and went to school on the other side of the country.
Throughout my years in the game I have seen that Asian girls aren't that receptive to me but I don't really care since I am not into Asian girls. With White girls I have noticed that foreign ones from Europe are just as receptive to me as Brown girls but White American girls avoid me especially if they are the kind in a sorority, involved with cheerleading, or just any that would be a part of the cool crowd in college. I always wanted to be in a relationship with the All American kind of girl who is in a sorority and comes from a suburban family, it is just something that I wanted.
I have no idea how to get these kinds of girls. Most of the times I feel like even if I had a job that paid me half a million dollars and looked like Mohinder Suresh I still wouldn't have a chance with these girls because they have pre-judged me in their heads as being someone they would never date. I know that the girls I am going after are obsessed with their status and only care about how their friends and social circle looks at them so dating a guy of my color would end up messing up their status but I want to know how to get around this major barrier and if it even possible to do so.
American women get a lot of hate on PUA sites but I don't care because I am just into them.
