Hey guys, wondering if any of you had some advice on this.
So I hit the club with 2 friends Monday night, I go for confident and casual to attract women to check me out first. I end up getting opened by a very attractive girl. We chatted, her friend wanted to dance. Before leaving she said 'you coming?' I had not realised my friends were accompanying her friends down the stairs. 'We will have to...see (sexy smile)'. Her reply 'you are coming down though right? I will see you in a bit!'. To not look like a idiot (after clocking my party disappearing) I remained now alone. Luckily some people came and talked to me...fast forward 30 mins.
The club has a booty lounge and I realise my party are there. I walk in, clock the girl and she is with a guy her back to me. 'Crap! too slow' so took a seat. Something is running at me...guess who. She goes to sit down next to me saying 'where have you' at this point I had grabbed her hand and pulled her to sit on top of me. She is excited. I try to make a move and she resisting slightly...then the ultimate cock-block...her friend gets into a fight. Delightful.
We take the girls home (my friend drove), I tried to turn her on again...its working but logistics weren't there. I grab her number, she calls me before getting out to check I got it correct. The following is the text convo we have had thus far (I forgot the first message from Chase's advice so tried to get back to it from the 2nd onwards);
Me: 'You get in safe trouble? x' (Tues morning - 30 mins after we parted)
Her: 'Yeah I did thank you x' (8am Tues morning)
Me: '(Name), how was the day of recovery? Mine was long, thanfully my trainer didn't care
so how about we grab those cocktails we talked about late this week? Let me know what your schedule is looking like and lets get the gears in motion' (9pm Tues)
Her: 'I had no day of recovery, absolutely dying!! Haha well aren't you lucky I'll have to get back to you, I know I am working all weekend x' (2 mins later)
Me: Suck it up...tomorrow is a new day. That's cool, guess some people can't handle it x' (5 mins later)
Her: 'That's true. Can't handle what? Haha x' (2 mins later)
Me: right I going to hit the hay, goodnight x' (2 mins later)
Her: 'Haha okay, goodnight xx' (2 mins later)
Ok so I believe my options to be:
1 - Do not text her, see if she messages me. I figure this is good because I don't waste time on her and if see her out again she will probably remember I didn't chase what-so-ever.
2 - Text her sometime next week. Don't bring anything up, fire off a hey and get to the point.
So I hit the club with 2 friends Monday night, I go for confident and casual to attract women to check me out first. I end up getting opened by a very attractive girl. We chatted, her friend wanted to dance. Before leaving she said 'you coming?' I had not realised my friends were accompanying her friends down the stairs. 'We will have to...see (sexy smile)'. Her reply 'you are coming down though right? I will see you in a bit!'. To not look like a idiot (after clocking my party disappearing) I remained now alone. Luckily some people came and talked to me...fast forward 30 mins.
The club has a booty lounge and I realise my party are there. I walk in, clock the girl and she is with a guy her back to me. 'Crap! too slow' so took a seat. Something is running at me...guess who. She goes to sit down next to me saying 'where have you' at this point I had grabbed her hand and pulled her to sit on top of me. She is excited. I try to make a move and she resisting slightly...then the ultimate cock-block...her friend gets into a fight. Delightful.
We take the girls home (my friend drove), I tried to turn her on again...its working but logistics weren't there. I grab her number, she calls me before getting out to check I got it correct. The following is the text convo we have had thus far (I forgot the first message from Chase's advice so tried to get back to it from the 2nd onwards);
Me: 'You get in safe trouble? x' (Tues morning - 30 mins after we parted)
Her: 'Yeah I did thank you x' (8am Tues morning)
Me: '(Name), how was the day of recovery? Mine was long, thanfully my trainer didn't care
so how about we grab those cocktails we talked about late this week? Let me know what your schedule is looking like and lets get the gears in motion' (9pm Tues)Her: 'I had no day of recovery, absolutely dying!! Haha well aren't you lucky
I'll have to get back to you, I know I am working all weekend x' (2 mins later)Me: Suck it up...tomorrow is a new day. That's cool, guess some people can't handle it
x' (5 mins later)Her: 'That's true. Can't handle what? Haha x' (2 mins later)
Me:
right I going to hit the hay, goodnight x' (2 mins later)Her: 'Haha okay, goodnight xx' (2 mins later)
Ok so I believe my options to be:
1 - Do not text her, see if she messages me. I figure this is good because I don't waste time on her and if see her out again she will probably remember I didn't chase what-so-ever.
2 - Text her sometime next week. Don't bring anything up, fire off a hey and get to the point.
