FR What to do when a girl flakes...a little inspiration for ya!

[theta14]

So a girl flaked on me Sunday night. I'm thinking WTF and wondering what the hell happened. This was the text exchange:
Me: Last night was fun! What are your plans for today
Her: Hey Ugh.. long day. I just got to work but fortunately it will be an early night. Should only have to be here until 8.
Her: How is your day
Me: Day is awesome. Got a lot done. Let's shoot to hang around 9.
Her: I'd like that. I'll let you know when I'm close to done. (6:02 PM)
Me: Sounds good! (7:51 PM)
Me: Guessing (the bar she works) is busy tonight lol (9:40 PM)

Never got a text back after that. I'm pretty sure something came up or she fell asleep...who knows lol. We will see if she hits me back up...
Anyway, I knew there was no point in sending any more texts, and I was feeling down about her not coming out thinking "well maybe I should just pack my bags and leave"
(I was already out and about at a bar with a couple drinks in me. I decided to shoulder on and see if anything could happen)

So I go to a bar I don't frequent a lot and chat up a guy with solid fundamentals. Wasn't sure what his actual "game" was like but we became friends for the night. I'm back in state and ready for anything at this point! We go to a different venue and I instantly chat up three people and ask if they're down to play some pool. They say they're getting ready to leave. A girl walks up to us asking if we wanna play her and her friend. I say yea and then point to the girl I was most attracted to and said loud and clear (without sounding uncalibrated) "YOU AND YOUR FRIEND COME OVER HERE". I hear a girl go "DON'T YOU STEAL MY GIRLFRIEND " Without being fazed I go "I AM GOING TO STEAL YOUR GIRLFRIEND" (everyone in their group does one of those OHHHHHH shout outs haha) and Instantly their group rushes over to the pool table. After the first couple of shots its my turn. I start running the table and try to talk up the girl I'm into (I ended up not having too much time to build a connection cause her group wanted to bounce soon...) The chick I'm into ends up beating my buddy and I because my partner hit the 8 ball in by accident. I look at her confidently and say that was a solid game. I'm gonna have to redeem myself another day. We gotta play again sometime. She agrees to give me her number and we part ways.

Always keep an eye open for new opportunities no matter what!

 

[Eternity]

Flakes happen in nightlife a lot thus the necessity to keep things moving asap. Venue bouncing and or looking for new leads at different places is what I like to do when I'm feeling down about some thot, because I almost always seem to find more receptive girls at other locations. I end up having more fun than I expected because I decided to go out instead of brooding over some bitch who doesn't want to talk to me and/or is flakey in her behavior. This improves my game due to more reference points and puts my fundamentals to the test in seeing if I can attract more girls by myself with no other crutches other than game, fundamentals, and blind luck. I prefer going out by myself honestly because I have the freedom to move around, join sets, approach hoes with no beta friends cockblocking, or a mixed group bitching about this or that... In my mind, there's always a hot bitch that wants to talk and or fuck me that night. Though, I'm still very fresh to nightgame and I'm learning the ropes as we speak but so far its been a fun ride.