What to do when a girl says she has a boyfriend or married?

[One_of_kind_200]

If you think they are honest, then this thread isnt for you. Because, from my experience with going out a LOT, I know which ones are single and ones who aren't. Especially of these two exact girls who are bars, clubs, and lounges end up going out with guys they met there. So what do you say when you get an instant rejection like this ? Do you persist or just leave it ?

 

[Seppuku]

When a girl says she has a boyfriend, one of the following is true:

(*) In fact, she doesn't have a boyfriend,
(*) She actually has a boyfriend, but would be willing to leave him for a better man,
(*) She has a boyfriend, loves him and is not ready to leave him.

So, what she says shouldn't be taken at face value. What really matter is whether she is (1) available and (2) interested. If she's available and interested, she will usually "forget" to mention about a boyfriend - unless she's testing your manly resolve.

So your best response is to persist - just in the case this is a shit test. You don't lose your cool, ignore and stay around a little longer.

Now if you get the boyfriend excuse in the face too often, you probably need to change something in the way you present yourself. It could be your fundamentals? or the way you come across - too edgy? too gamey? too aggressive? or the other way around? If this is the problem, then it is just a matter of tweaking your game. It is difficult to gauge the actual problem, and it takes trial and error until you fix it. Try different styles and see if things improve.

When I started, I was too unattainable vis a vis of my target market (asian girls). I finally figured it out, dressed down a little bit and became a little warmer.

Cheers,
Seppuku

 

[One_of_kind_200]

When a girl says she has a boyfriend, one of the following is true:

(*) In fact, she doesn't have a boyfriend,
(*) She actually has a boyfriend, but would be willing to leave him for a better man,
(*) She has a boyfriend, loves him and is not ready to leave him.

So, what she says shouldn't be taken at face value. What really matter is whether she is (1) available and (2) interested. If she's available and interested, she will usually "forget" to mention about a boyfriend - unless she's testing your manly resolve.

So your best response is to persist - just in the case this is a shit test. You don't lose your cool, ignore and stay around a little longer.

Now if you get the boyfriend excuse in the face too often, you probably need to change something in the way you present yourself. It could be your fundamentals? or the way you come across - too edgy? too gamey? too aggressive? or the other way around? If this is the problem, then it is just a matter of tweaking your game. It is difficult to gauge the actual problem, and it takes trial and error until you fix it. Try different styles and see if things improve.

When I started, I was too unattainable vis a vis of my target market (asian girls). I finally figured it out, dressed down a little bit and became a little warmer.

Cheers,
Seppuku

Ok good advice, however, from my experience, if I persist , I always get another rejection. So it seems to me that a no is always a no. What do you think of your experience ? Do you say that you just wanna be your friend

 

[One_of_kind_200]

When a girl says she has a boyfriend, one of the following is true:

(*) In fact, she doesn't have a boyfriend,
(*) She actually has a boyfriend, but would be willing to leave him for a better man,
(*) She has a boyfriend, loves him and is not ready to leave him.

So, what she says shouldn't be taken at face value. What really matter is whether she is (1) available and (2) interested. If she's available and interested, she will usually "forget" to mention about a boyfriend - unless she's testing your manly resolve.

So your best response is to persist - just in the case this is a shit test. You don't lose your cool, ignore and stay around a little longer.

Now if you get the boyfriend excuse in the face too often, you probably need to change something in the way you present yourself. It could be your fundamentals? or the way you come across - too edgy? too gamey? too aggressive? or the other way around? If this is the problem, then it is just a matter of tweaking your game. It is difficult to gauge the actual problem, and it takes trial and error until you fix it. Try different styles and see if things improve.

When I started, I was too unattainable vis a vis of my target market (asian girls). I finally figured it out, dressed down a little bit and became a little warmer.

Cheers,
Seppuku

Oh I just remembered. Just last night, I had a lunch with this lady and she told me right off the bat that she is in a commit relationship which I know it wasnt true. So we sat and ate and she said shes from San Diago which is another lie. I asked her out at the end of the night she said no so I left. What would you have done ? Isnt this a no is a no ?