What to do when so much time passed since date1?

[Witcher]

Hello everyone,

Still on mlmy way of learning seduction, i'am trying to fellow the process that goes on 2-3 dates , because of my current level, logistcis and my love for it.
I use the following articles and references and how-to's:

https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-get-girlfriend-next-2-weeks
https://www.girlschase.com/content/3-second-date-strategies-make-her-flirt-and-swoon
https://www.girlschase.com/content/having-lots-dates-short-amounts-time

My current problem is that, even if i get first dates in relatively easy way i struggle to for getting the seond one according to the paradigm of the GirlsChase methodology. After the firts date, either me or the girl get very busy and can't meet for a second time respecting a good time frame from the first date ( 2-3 days to One week).

So i want to know how i should act when there is so much time passed since the first date, recount from zero and re-do an informational date or continue with the process as nothing happened? I want to make the observation that i'am not refering at the times where i fucked up the first dates!

Thank you

 

[Hue]

Yo Witcher,

How are your first dates going?

If your 1st date wasn't solid, it can have a huge effect on how setting up the 2nd one goes. You said you've read those articles you listed, so I'm assuming you've been following those to set it up. The 2nd one is my most used article on this site, it gives a lot of info on adapting to the situation.

What does your texting after the first date look like?

I just realized that I was mistaking persistence for chasing through my texting after the 1st date. Other than simply following the timeliness of what's written in those articles, it's really important to be adaptive to the situation she throws you when you're texting.

Ever since I started following @whatshereallymeant on insta I've been getting dates more readily from adapting to well, what she really means when she responds after I propose a date.

It's really important to be devil may care, law of least effort when it comes to texting. Persistence comes when she/logistics are difficult, but only after you've responded accordingly.


Hueman

 

[Witcher]

Hueman,

Thank you for your observations.

I just noticed that i always forget the "Text Her after first date", i should keep a reminder, now i think i have an explanation why my good first date make girls auto reject.

Second, i wanted to know if i because of life situation so much time passed since date once, should we just continue the process normaly or re-set it completely from Date 1.

Cheers!

Note: now i get why it's better and prefered to close on the first date

 

[Hue]

I just noticed that i always forget the "Text Her after first date", i should keep a reminder, now i think i have an explanation why my good first date make girls auto reject.

Yea that's real important to send a text to keep a warm and congruent image of you intact about 12-24 hours after the date ends, or else she can run off with tiny things/vibes that happened on the date and auto reject.

Second, i wanted to know if i because of life situation so much time passed since date once, should we just continue the process normaly or re-set it completely from Date 1.

Since so much time has past, the attraction may have withered, but that doesn't mean it's totally gone.

One time I didn't get an answer after a pretty solid first date, then shot her a text two weeks later and slowly but surely got the cat.

If it's been a minute since the 1st date, I'd just try to hit the reset button and act like it's your 1st date again, and do what you can to get it in this time.

Note: now i get why it's better and prefered to close on the first date

No doubt, but don't be discouraged.

It took me a good bit of dating experience before I'd ever gotten a 1st date lay. Treat any spec of failure as experience.


Hueman