What to do with her friends

[shaneawi]

I've been talking with a girl at school. She likes me and I like her. This girls close friend found out and now the friend is starting to get talk with me more. For example the friend intentionally asked someone else in class to switch seats so she could sit next to me. She immediately started a conversation and teased me about liking her friend. While the professor was talking she was trying to talk with me and play the game "hangman"lame lol. I've also caught her staring at me in class with no expression and she won't look away when I look back. When I tried to get rid of her she said I'm sure we'll see each other again.

I just want to focus on the girl I like and not get involved with her friend with anything because I don't want to say or do something that's looks bad and will get back to the girl Im interested in. Should I continue being friends with this girl?

 

[andersen09]

The thing is this is how ALL women operate, even on Tinder.
What you're facing now isn't just this one time, but it'll happen over and over and over and over until you die.

For example, I talked to a girl recently on Tinder and the next day immediately her message was
Her: "I showed my best friend your pictures, she thinks you're an anime character"
Me: "Sounds like your friend finds me sexy too, better be careful"
Her: "My friend says youre an asshole"
Me: "Tell your friend we're gonna get along"

The thing is when you get uncomfortable with her telling her friends, it's due to some type of insecurities you have that you need to work on.

If you were someone that has his shit together with conversation, you wouldn't really mind her when she tells her friends.
In fact, if you were so good, you'd encourage it so that it creates a bit of jealousy in her when her friends find you attractive too.

So I would say

1. Embrace this situation and see what happens so that you have a referential experience to look back at for what needs to be fixed (if, at all).
2. Figure out what's making you insecure (I.E her friend finding out you're whack when it comes to topics you talk about) and take that SAME problem and take it to cold approach.

In cold approach, you can become better while no one is looking,
And your skills improve so that when you hammer away at your insecurities, you're more confident in the similar situation.