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What to follow up with after "Hey, are you free tonight?"

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Space Monkey
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And she responds with a (positively but busy) "no"

You can't just say the same thing again?

It's like the movie, what's it called... except he calls them. And says, "Are you free tonight?"

I think that's my answer. Are you free tonight is different from hey, are you free tonight.

But after that?
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

TwoNameGame

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"Are you free tonight?"
Ask her about her availability this week.

To avoid this, try sending a probe text before hand (like the soft close by Skills or a basic icebreaker text by Chase depending on what point You're at). Only ask about tonight if she is eager and seems open, or you have reason to know she is avilable today; otherwise, ask about the week.
 

Bismarck

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Alternatively, you can give her two days to choose from, but it's hit or miss—if she is unavailable on both days, you start building negative compliance, which, with a cold approach day game number, can spell the end of everything.
 
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