What to say to THIS date rejection?

[killerman]

Ok so the other week I was in a coffee shop with my wingman. And there was this cute girl. My wingman said how she kept on giving me looks, not once, not twice but a good few times. I then saw her on the street a week later and approached her telling her how i recognised her from the coffee shop and that she looked cute and i wanted to meet her. She then said she was in a real rush (she genuinely looked like she was) and i said "no problem give me your number and we can go for drinks" and then she gave me her number. After a couple texts i invited her for drinks but she said "you seem like a really nice guy but i've just come out of a relationship and think i need to have some time alone for a while. i'm sorry :-("

What do I say to this? Do I say i'm not looking for anything serious and that's it's just a drink or do i say "no worries let me know when things change and hopefully we can fix something up ;-)" or do I simply ignore the text and send nothing?

 

[Hue]

Sup killerman,

That kinda shit is annoying. In my experience, she might just be auto rejection (could actually have just broken up and just thought you were cute at the coffee shop, maybe missed your window and lost her attraction, who knows).

Based on the specific girl and your interactions with her, I would either:

A). Forget about it, move on to the next one as to not waste energy

B). Send her something along the lines of "Well I never said I was looking for anything serious/ a relationship/ etc."
Then, if her response is positive, move forward.
If her response is negative, send her a ball's in your court text, like "Hmm, okay. Well if you change your mind, ball's in your court"

I've gone with option B and had it work, but up to you to gauge what she'll likely respond back with.

Best of luck,

Hueman