What to Text Back To Get Her ALONE!!

[rabbithole]

Hey guys...

So got this girls # months ago, she had a bf then and couldn't get her out to chill at that point. We texted a bit back then but she said sorry if she gave the wrong impression giving out her # etc and that she was not available at all...
Sent her a text a few days ago and here's the exchange:

Jun 17
Hey M! Hope you had a nice weekend and things have been going well! I'm living in _____ now...still at the _____ (place we used to live, apartments)?

Jun 19
Hi, is this ____? Sorry I got a new phone and it took me a whole to figure out who this was. How are you?

Jun 20
11:00am Hey M! Yeah, it's ____. How's my stubborn late night dog walking friend (we met walking our dogs) been? _____ (the city I'm in) has been great, so much to do here!

She responds: 4:15pm - I'm doing pretty good. And yes, I'm still at the (place she has been living at where I used to live).

Jun 22
Glad to hear you're well! Thinking we need to get together for a drink soon. When's good for you schedule-wise?

June 25
1:44 pm Hi M! Hope you and (insert her dog's name) are doing well, what'd you do this weekend?
She responds: 3:15pm - Hey, sorry I didn't get back to you. I could possibly meet you one day next week for a drink? I've been traveling a lot lately and will be in and out for the next few weeks.

My response: 5:25 pm - Cool...Wednesday or Thursday are free on my end. Let's say Wednesday at 7:30pm. Let me know if that works!
Her response: 7:01pm - Wednesday is my only "free" day but I already have plans to meet a friend. Would you live to bring a friend and make it a foursome?

OK...that's where we are at. I'm looking for any advice on:
1) Overall thoughts about where she's at in her mind with all this
2) How i've done so far
3) What is the BEST RESPONSE now to get her out...but ALONE. I don't want to go out with her friend and bring 1 along with me. Just not my style...plus agreeing to her terms is like cutting my balls off.

I ain't responding till I get some solid advice here because I KNOW Franco and others will have more solid responses than what I have in mind. So hoping for some good feedback. Would be cool to pull this chick, who knows

 

[Eternity]

This one's lost. If you had any chance it's probably gone.

1) Too many words for a "restart txt". Less is more, a simple "hey, its____, u down for drink thurs at 7:30?" is all you needed. Fuck her feelings, life, bf, your dog, ect... get to the point with your txt pronto.

2) She holds power over the whole conversation and she even ignores u for a day and you again start the conversation. In her mind, "wow, pretty needy guy. I sooo got this. let's see how he does" I'm reading it and it reeks of a guy who is too invested in this interaction, a guy who may not have any more options except this ego inflated slut. Imagine what she's thinking...

3) The bitch has the audacity to make it a group date, who my guess, you will have to pay for her fat/ugly friend while she cockblocks the shit out of you for taking out a girl with a b.f. Nothing wrong with that, just the extra human baggage pulling you down and keeping you from deep diving, physically escalating, ect... If it's hard alone, imagine the issues with another jealous fat/ugly bitch at hand. No group dates! Unless you're banging the chick already and your wingman needs some pussy, then your girl's friend might be welcomed...

4) She's was never going to meet you alone, if she wanted your dick she would've agreed and met you alone not with a fat friend to keep an eye on you.

5) Go all out on your next txt, might as well screen out a uninterested bitch now than forking out 20-30$ on her and her fat friend for the price of no pussy.
I would txt back: "No,u +me alone" whatever her lame response don't txt back anything and leave her wondering...
That way you leave with some power and your pride and balls intact.

 

[rabbithole]

Thanks bro, much needed advice.
So the "you + me alone" and that's it. Shouldn't be something kind of over the top to maybe shake her up a bit? I guess I'm thinking even more "risque" in a way.
I dont want to comment on your points below until others weigh in, don't want to bias anything. But really appreciate your advice.

This one's lost. If you had any chance it's probably gone.

1) Too many words for a "restart txt". Less is more, a simple "hey, its____, u down for drink thurs at 7:30?" is all you needed. Fuck her feelings, life, bf, your dog, ect... get to the point with your txt pronto.

2) She holds power over the whole conversation and she even ignores u for a day and you again start the conversation. In her mind, "wow, pretty needy guy. I sooo got this. let's see how he does" I'm reading it and it reeks of a guy who is too invested in this interaction, a guy who may not have any more options except this ego inflated slut. Imagine what she's thinking...

3) The bitch has the audacity to make it a group date, who my guess, you will have to pay for her fat/ugly friend while she cockblocks the shit out of you for taking out a girl with a b.f. Nothing wrong with that, just the extra human baggage pulling you down and keeping you from deep diving, physically escalating, ect... If it's hard alone, imagine the issues with another jealous fat/ugly bitch at hand. No group dates! Unless you're banging the chick already and your wingman needs some pussy, then your girl's friend might be welcomed...

4) She's was never going to meet you alone, if she wanted your dick she would've agreed and met you alone not with a fat friend to keep an eye on you.

5) Go all out on your next txt, might as well screen out a uninterested bitch now than forking out 20-30$ on her and her fat friend for the price of no pussy.
I would txt back: "No,u +me alone" whatever her lame response don't txt back anything and leave her wondering...
That way you leave with some power and your pride and balls intact.

 

[Eternity]

Yeah. The u+me txt is all you need. Watch her come up with excuses on how she can't ditch her friend, blah blah blah. Don't go over the top with your next txt, you will seem more butthurt than indifferent. She will know you are pretending to be strong but are actually hurt about her rejection. My way, she doesn't know. You might be txting some other girl for the same plans for all she knows. It's mysterious, aloof, assholeish, and non needy in one. Become indifferent and aloof to the outcome and keep on gaming and banging.

 

[rabbithole]

Cool thanks.

I'm curious how you think I go about leading the texts better and coming across more dominant (not needy). I thought some of the texts I used were following what's on chases articles but its a tough situation when you havent spoken/communicated with the person in so long. Like you dont want to come across unhuman in a way and just "hey yo, havent spoken in 6 months. drinks?" - like that vibe seems like it wont get the right response either. not sure i'm being clear, long day

 

[Eternity]

Chase's txting method and my method are very different, opposite actually. Mine is used to weed out uninterested chicks from the get go because these girls might flake or give you b.s like your friend above. If she's down she will meet you and txt you back accordingly and you will tell from her txting she's interested. Your example is not a bad one actually, it speaks of someone who is direct, blunt, and goes for what he wants (pussy). I follow Heartiste's txting method, you can read his philosophy on txting in my tips and tricks thread. It's more my style, it might work for you, give it a read.