What topics to bring up (subtly sneak in) for the first date? Which to avoid?

[razir110]

Hi everyone,

So when I am on the first date there are a few things that say in the middle if the conversation that I think are important for the girl to understand about me and about my views.

I say that there is no such thing as friendship between men and women, only sexual interest.
That when I am single I do do whatever I Want, I can sleep with 10 girls at the same time and I owe no explanations to nobody. I also say that I think the same applies to women (and I do)
That I am discrete with my flirts and I kiss and dont tell.

I think these are fun topics to discuss and they also make the girl feel more comfortable.

But I think a few topics are dangerous, for example: Should I say that by avoiding first date sex, even if she wants it, she can lose the guy? Like there is no point doing that because from bed we can take it anywhere we want etc? Would you guys say this on a first date?

What other topics would you bring up? Which wouldn't?

Cheers!

 

[Fuck This]

Re: What topics to bring up (subtly sneak in) for the first date? Which to avoid

Think of it as a job interview...You wouldn't go in to an interview for a job you haven't been offered with a bunch of demands would you? But you would show your interest and capabilities.

Topics I want to know on a first date, but I don't out right ask:
What is her plans after this date?
Is there someone in her place?
Can we go back there after?
Is she giving me signals she is "in to me" ?
What gets her hot and excited? What makes her sad?
Who does she remind me of that I know?


As for conversation (be ready to answer these yourself)
Does she work?
Does she like her work?
What is her idea of fun?
Is she a Cat or Dog person?
Is she a Things or Experience Person?
Is she an introvert or extrovert?
What is her Love Language?
What do we have in common is upbringing?
How are we different, and do I want to learn more about that?

 

[andersen09]

Re: What topics to bring up (subtly sneak in) for the first date? Which to avoid

I would avoid any topics that are unnecessary for seduction and taking her to bed.

If she seems concerned about looking like a slut, I would tell a story of how I think it's so stupid how society judges.
If she can tell I'm a sexual guy and don't give off any judgmental vibe, I wouldn't tell her that story.

If she's into me but arn't sure about me, I would make sure to tell her stories or move around to let her get more comforted.

Basically, it depends on the girl on what topics I'd bring up and wouldn't.
Aside from any overall topics not to bring up such as, politics or religion, any topic can be framed towards a girl and lead it to seduction.