Whats different about the criminal’s brain chemistry?

[moom]

So I would say I’m fairly decent with women.

Have a hot girlftiend, decent close ratio, top 10 % social skills.

But I personally know men that fit in this “criminal” archetype, that basically have a cheat code to getting short term flings with women.

Men like this are built like adonis, tatted, and have a history of criminal behavior. I know a guy who robbed a bank, got caught, broke probation, then started an only fans making good money. Hes charming af, and has a new girl everytime i see him, ends up dating hot psuedo celebs, and has a kid lol. He ends up giving girls mental breakdowns when he dates them because they’re so extremely attached.

Starting an only fans isnt something i want to do, nor do I have any inclination for robbing a bank lol (i do occasionally grafiti or trespass but never get caught), and I don’t like hurting women.

Whats up with guys like that? Hows their brain chemistry work? What can I learn from them to bring into my own game?

 

[Chase]

@moom,

There are some of them who have these results, yeah.

That being said, I have known guys who were in and out of prison for violent offenses; I knew a guy who went to jail for selling drugs + guns with the serial numbers scratched off; knew a guy who got shot selling drugs to crackheads, then ended up arrested; all kinds of things. Most of these guys were little better with girls than any average guy. Usually they'd have a girlfriend or get laid sometimes, at probably a somewhat higher rate than your average dude, but not a whole lot. They just have a somewhat stronger baseline for attraction.

For both the typical criminal and the "super seductive bad boy criminal" the basic advantages they have over ordinary law-abiding citizens are:

• They are IMPULSIVE, uninhibited, and aggressively pursue what they want. Most men in Western society suffer from being too restrained, inhibited, and passive, so any man behaving contrary to that will tend to be a breath of fresh air to girls
  
  
• They are bad boys with no real provider potential, which simplifies the logic for women: they don't need to balance out their lust vs. their desire to seem pure to keep the guy around... they can just go to bed with him and not have to worry about the future
  
  
• Because their lives are so unstable, and they are impulsive and chasing after various fleeting things, they tend to go hot and cold on girls a lot, which is part of the magic recipe for sucking women deep into the uncontrolled feeling that causes neediness/attachment/love
  
  
• When they get locked up, it is a tragic separation, where the guy and girl have been cruelly torn apart by fate, rather than the relationship ending due to one of them getting bored / unhappy with the other. That only amplifies things
  
  
• Finally they also have the "broken guy in need of rescuing" tag down cold. Lots and lots of girls have that superwoman psychology where they want to find a broken man and rescue him. It's "bargain hunter" mentality: if a guy is attractive and broken, and she can get him and rescue him, she can potentially end up with a guy who's even better than what she could get if she was dating attractive unbroken men

The difference between the super seductive criminal types and the everyday average Joe criminal types is down to the same old tricks of fundamentals and game. Super seductive criminals just combine all those attractive qualities above with great fundamentals and game.

So if you want a quick rundown of their additional attractive qualities:

• Uninhibited, spontaneous, adventurous, go for what they want without second guessing it
  
  
• Bad boys totally lacking provider potential, so women can make uncomplicated decisions about them
  
  
• Unstable/uncertain lives leading to hot/cold and instability with girlfriends. Easiest way to replicate this is having a dream/mission/priority that to you is bigger than the girl
  
  
• Broken guy in need of rescuing -- you can mimic this to some degree with Byronic vulnerabilities

Then, of course, get those fundamentals and game skills up

Chase

 

[Zorba]

Ask me anything.

IMO?

I lived in a world where everything, and I mean everything, was a dominance play. Constantly watched, constantly tested, zero room to slip. You don't forget those instincts. Nobody ever has an upper hand on me in any situation. Ever. And women know it.

Another angle - go watch a few people die violent deaths and see if you still get approach anxiety afterwards.