What's the best way to reply to "What are we going to do?"?

[youngbuck]

I have a girl that has agreed to meet up with me after 10pm this weekend, and she asked me what we were going to do. I say she has agreed, but it feels if I give a wrong answer here then she'll change her mind. I think the time and day implies what my intentions are, so I don't think I need to be too specific when I reply. How do I make it so she's comfortable enough to invest her time into seeing me at this time, but also keep her on her toes and full of anticipation? Most of time I'll deflect by saying we're going to talk about the weather and play checkers in a way that makes it clear that I'm joking, but some girls press harder and don't let me get away with that answer.

I should also mention that previously she has pressed hard into getting us to do a sit-down dinner date, but I was able to get out of that. It felt like she was trying to get me to be the Pete instead of the Jerry (https://www.girlschase.com/content/how- ... -ever-need), but I think almost in the clear with the 10pm weekend date.

Thanks,

youngbuck

 

[foggy]

we're going to get to know each other better

 

[Fuck This]

"I thought we could go up to the lake and watch the submarine races"

"Nothing that you don't want to do."

Have you been sexual in your conversations up to this point? That is kind of a prerequisite for an implied hookup meeting. Don't Bait and Switch her.

You see it as potentially losing out, when in reality you are screening her for the kind of relationship you want.

If she say's something about "you just wanna get laid", then own it. "You bet I am a red blooded male who values the physical part of a relationship. I think that physical attraction is the most honest part of a relationship and sharing that is paramount."

 

[razir110]

I think the only wrong reply here is something too direct like "I want to sleep with you" or too friendly "like i don't want to rush things, dont worry we are just having a coffee"

So anything from "we will watch a crazy sex show, you'll love it" to "I just want to spend a pleasant evening with you, I know you are eager to make a move on me, but you will have to wait darling" is just fine.

Don't be bland-direct and don't be an inoffensive teddy bear. Don't say anything that would make you look as you are explaining yourself or apologizing basically.