Whats the general consensus on how best to run club/party game? (small to medium size venues)

[Kaida]

Now that I’m experiencing night game for the first time, I’m starting to think that I need a new process.

The clubs I go to are pretty much all people that go to or used to go to my university.

My current process for night game is pretty much like my day game. I always had an intuition that doing this wasn’t going to work well but I’m a guy who likes testing.

Here’s my process:

1. Approach a girl and make a good first impression - basic flirting / touching and conversation. I get a lot of hooks here

2. Ask for number on high point

3. Say goodbye and search for another girl

4. Text her this icebreaker ~20 minutes after getting number:

“hey [HER NAME]”
“its [MY NAME]”
“glad we met ”

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As you probably can understand, my process makes for some awkward moments. Sometimes theres a new fine girl in front of me but a girl I just approached can see me. If the new girl is significantly more attractive I just say fuck it and approach, but it still feels weird.


I havent gotten anything from club/party game yet. With the amount of girls I approached I should have gotten laid at least. My process is likely to blame. Im writing this now because I’m pissed. I’ve gotten some fine ass girls hooked and just left with their numbers only for them to text back warmly a few times then drop off.


How should I go about clubs? Do I commit to a girl and try to arouse, deep dive, and SDL her or do I stick with numbers


Extra question: Is it effective to open a girl, get her number, then try reopening later for a longer interaction

 

[rockstar]

How should I go about clubs? Do I commit to a girl and try to arouse, deep dive, and SDL her or do I stick with with numbers

Go for the same night. Unless the logistics/friend situation is bad, you're generally going to have a much better chance of pulling that night than getting her to come out on a date with you another day.

Extra question: Is it effective to open a girl, get her number, then try reopening later for a longer interaction

It can be, but if you like the girl just stay in.


You can go out and approach a lot of girls for short conversations then circle back to the most receptive one. You can also just go for the most attractive one you see and stay in until the end if it's good. I prefer the latter.

But number farming for dates from nightgame usually isn't very effective

 

[KJ Francis]

That was my first thought too. Why eject? The next day will be a big state shift for her.

 

[Bill]

I’d suggest implementing screening and qualifying/disqualifying in your conversations.
You can also try the strategies from these videos,
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