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What's the process for cold approaching sisters during the day?

Dough

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So I've noticed that I keep running into this same situation - there's a couple girls in a mall or whatever, they're clearly sisters and they're both my type. One of them checks me out, but I have absolutely no idea what to do. Had this happen last week with a pair of 6ft redheads, had it happen today with a couple busty mennonite girls, etc.

I was able to find articles on GC for groups at night, and for cold approach in daylight. But not cold approaching groups in daylight, and especially when I'm into both (or all) the girls. I'm not experienced enough to be able to put the pieces together to create an approach process myself. Also, even if I solve this issue I still don't know how to deal with a group out shopping where I want one of the girls but not the others.

My cold approach "routine" that I've put together is this (let me know if you think it needs improvement somewhere btw): Go up to her and get her attention, give her a moment to get a nice look at me, give a genuine compliment on part of her style, tease her about having checked me out (and find out if she's single in the process), do a little small talk to get her more comfortable with me, touch her and move her somewhere that we can have a chat, deep dive her a little, and then invite her on an instant date if I liked what I learned.

Do I just do the same thing but with both girls simultaneously...? I can't imagine inviting two sisters I just met onto a three-person date to finish my shopping with me while touching and flirting with both of them, but I guess it's possible...
 
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Bill

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You can’t isolate one girl from a two set because the friend would be left alone. You can’t escalate infront of a group. Don’t touch and flirt with both of them, pick a target.

The one who is giving you IOI‘s is preferably the target. If one girl likes you but you go for the other one she will be resistant because she doesn’t want to upset her sister by taking the guy she likes. Game the target through the other girl.
ex. “You seem cool..your sister seems like trouble. Would it be a bad idea for me to date her?”

number close both with a soft invite or just the target girl.
 
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Conquistador

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Treat it as a regular two-set. Be social, communicate sexuality through your vibe rather than words, get to know them and close the emotional distance, get one or both numbers.
If you’re dealing with girls who aren’t super ready for escalation, (such as, possibly, the Mennonites ^^) I think you can instadate both without losing frame (quite the opposite). In fact, it’s a powerful tool.
I don’t understand why people think opening 2-sets are hard, it’s closing/pulling that can be hard, almost NEVER opening.
 

Mr.SocialAcceptableHarem

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So I've noticed that I keep running into this same situation - there's a couple girls in a mall or whatever, they're clearly sisters and they're both my type. One of them checks me out, but I have absolutely no idea what to do. Had this happen last week with a pair of 6ft redheads, had it happen today with a couple busty mennonite girls, etc.

I was able to find articles on GC for groups at night, and for cold approach in daylight. But not cold approaching groups in daylight, and especially when I'm into both (or all) the girls. I'm not experienced enough to be able to put the pieces together to create an approach process myself. Also, even if I solve this issue I still don't know how to deal with a group out shopping where I want one of the girls but not the others.

My cold approach "routine" that I've put together is this (let me know if you think it needs improvement somewhere btw): Go up to her and get her attention, give her a moment to get a nice look at me, give a genuine compliment on part of her style, tease her about having checked me out (and find out if she's single in the process), do a little small talk to get her more comfortable with me, touch her and move her somewhere that we can have a chat, deep dive her a little, and then invite her on an instant date if I liked what I learned.

Do I just do the same thing but with both girls simultaneously...? I can't imagine inviting two sisters I just met onto a three-person date to finish my shopping with me while touching and flirting with both of them, but I guess it's possible...
Sisters, her and her grandma, whatever it is, it’s all the same in the two set (basically, slight variations but doesn’t make a big difference)

You have two objectives.

Charm the girl you like.

And Charm the friend as much or EVEN MORE than the girl you like

In the two set, aside from the girl not liking you, you have the possibility of the friend not liking you and the set can end from a combination of these two possibilities

You solve the problem of cockblock, by engaging the friend in the conversation too

It is a conversation between the three of you, not just you and the hot girl

Usually if you do this correctly during the opening, the friend will concede in a way and let you focus more on the girl you like

Here’s an example of a two set opener: “hey, I was walking by, and I noticed your friend looked really cute and I wanted to say hi, do you mind if I talk to her”

You say this to the friend of the girl you like

Asking for permission is an acknowledgment of and respecting her role as friend

This opener doesn’t guarantee that you will get the number but it does lower chances of cockblock, it is rare for the friend to reject me when I do this

Give it a shot ;)
 
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