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Boom_1982

Space Monkey
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Hi folks!!

There's a girl at work who is always trying to block my path when we cross each other walking in office and tries to push me to corner and once my forearm touched with hers. This happens when she has company and never when she's alone. What's going on!! I maintain decorum and let her cross at peace but planning to counter her if it happens again.
 

Alpha13SC

Cro-Magnon Man
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I had a girl in highschool who I didn't know yet, multiple long eye contacts and one time she actually tried to be an obstacle and put her leg between my legs so I can fall. I cracked a joke, continued that vibe and we actually talked a little.
 

Boom_1982

Space Monkey
space monkey
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We are currently in 'don't know each other' zone but something is going on that side
 

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Hi folks!!

There's a girl at work who is always trying to block my path when we cross each other walking in office and tries to push me to corner and once my forearm touched with hers. This happens when she has company and never when she's alone. What's going on!! I maintain decorum and let her cross at peace but planning to counter her if it happens again.

Talk to her.

She probably wants your attention at the very least if not your dick.

I'm assuming you don't have much history with women as a lover/player so I'd consider doing the Newbie Assignment outside of work and social circle.

Also focus on your social skills for a while as this is a rather juvenile example of an Approach Invitation. Social skills will open your eyes to things in the mating dance.


Just talk to as many people as possible and learn how to navigate at an above average social level. Chase has great articles among other writers on this site on it, but make sure to go out and actually put yourself out there or you'll become very knowledgeable...but inexperienced. Which will do you no favors.

I don't know the details of your workplace, culture, and prospects should things go great or bad, so I'm not going to tell you if you should actually go for her. That's up to your discretion, but I will tell you to go on a social self improvement journey.

I had to do it before pursuing player life and I might return to social mode for a bit. It's incredibly helpful, you'll make friends, you have time to develop antennas for moves that are more sexual than social.

Peace
 

Boom_1982

Space Monkey
space monkey
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Thanks for great suggestion and I'll work on it. I think I'm well socially calibrated so when I get approach invite, I ask myself if I want it? & in this case, I do not.Moreover, there are multiple factors working against me(see below) so it's best for me to let it pass. However, I'd certainly like to consider pursuing thing with her if we start working for diff org in future and not sure if i have communicated this to her.
1: My rank(manager) vs her(frontline) hence it can bring disrepute to me quickly and will doore harm than good
2: She and her friends are friends with some of my direct reports
3: Sexual tension is high between both of us so if i start talking then things will go out control soon and we can end up being up in relationship
 
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