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For me, I focus on media, workplace and home duties and expand on the context to see their replies.

For media, I gently mention controversy surrounding identity casting or politically driven tropes in the media.

For workplace, I use cold reads to imply potential power dynamics and office politics.

For home duties, I mention getting shit done, including tasks that are seen as 'more for women' like cleaning. (Tho this one may not be the best since cleanliness is important to most people).

I also do cold reads to filter in more masculine women (not the feminist strong independent woman type, but the genuine) aka "maybe you can be my tour guide and show me around" etc.

My goal with this is to filter out ideologically aligned and make friends with those without that alignment. I know girlchase mentioned most women who also expouse some feminist views aren't actually feminist, but that doesn't matter as i want to filter this type out.

What do you do to approach this?
 
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