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when a girl is too comfortable around you

Brazerprime

Space Monkey
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I met a girl and she was super friendly in a class we both take, but by 2nd time I saw her again that week she was just VERY talkative with me and acting super comfortable.

Is this a bad sign? I don't know... I feel like when people act like this they just see you as a "friend" even though I've only seen her twice. I figure I'll just ask her out next week but just psychologically I wonder what this means
 

HoofHearted

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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I think comfort is actually underrated, in a certain regard.

Not to say she should be bored, or there shouldn't be a pleasant kind of tension.

But the ability to make others feel comfortable is a gift.

Try to make it flirty imo
 

Mr.SocialAcceptableHarem

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As long as you create sexual tension, your all good. I can see what you mean, if she's all friendly with you in a platonic way, you're not getting what you want. Imply your intention through flirting, as HoofHearted said.
 
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