when a girl says "yeah just text me"

[Brazerprime]

So talking with this girl I see in a class today.. it was decent and it turned out another girl I was talking to said a lot of them were going out for drinks after class.. but I couldn't make it bc of a work thing unfort. I then talked w her about it and she said she'd let me know next time they go out for something...some of it was jumbled but I ALMOST thought she said the word date but I'm reallly not 100% sure.

I then asked her what she was doing this weekend and she said she was busy on saturday and pretty free sunday. I sadi there's a smootihe place I like if she'd want to hang sunday and she said, "yeah just text me" ... which I am not sure how good that is. I also know she's going out tonight so woulnd't text her till tomorrow at earliest.

Would you recommend me asking her out tomorrow (Friday) for Sunday plans, or just pass/skip it till next week and try to meet up in a larger group setting? even if she says "no" or makes an excuse for Sunday I don't think it's totally over just might need some more comfort or group time. I don't know, my biggest issue is I don't want this thing dragging for months on end with no resolution.

Like if she says "no" once then I'll wait and just add value for 2 or so weeks and then if she says "no" again then I know it's over .

 

[HoofHearted]

I think you should text her tomorrow and ask if she wants to hang Sunday. She seems at least somewhat interested.

Also, keep talking to other girls. Remember, most things don't work out, and that's okay. That's why we keep a lot of things going at once.

Edit I do not believe in 'playing it cool.' I believe in getting after it. It should look 'cool' and collected on the service, but time is not your friend. And while most men don't know what they're doing, a few do, and that's honest competition. There is no prize for second place with women, it's a cutthroat business that teaches us the hard way. Delay too long and things will change, be it her feelings, or some other dude walking off with her.

 

[Brazerprime]

I think you should text her tomorrow and ask if she wants to hang Sunday. She seems at least somewhat interested.

Also, keep talking to other girls. Remember, most things don't work out, and that's okay. That's why we keep a lot of things going at once.

Edit I do not believe in 'playing it cool.' I believe in getting after it. It should look 'cool' and collected on the service, but time is not your friend. And while most men don't know what they're doing, a few do, and that's honest competition. There is no prize for second place with women, it's a cutthroat business that teaches us the hard way. Delay too long and things will change, be it her feelings, or some other dude walking off with her.

ok, why do you believe that is better than texting on Saturday?

 

[TheEcho]

Dude, too in your head about things being negative. Text the girl and get it taken care of. She will or she won't, oh well

 

[StrayDog]

for real dude. just shoot your shot

 

[sunnygirl]

You're overthinking this, it's not that big of a deal, just ask her and then after that ball's in her court. Proceed from there if she has interest signals.