One thing that confuses me is why sometimes, girls are smitten or even looking for a guy who is pushy towards a relationship. Go back a few years ago and it seems many girls were complaining about guys pretending they want something serious to get in their pants and then running away.
Yet this doesnt seem to work much in modern times. Im not looking to use this as a strategy as it's manipulative, but I don't quiet understand why or when it works.
Does it only work when the guy has exceptional value so they are improving their attainability by being a bit pushy/needy?
Does it work when girls have been hurt recently by a bad boy and looking for a nicer guy?
The reason I ask, is that I see certain guys who I wouldn't say have very good game but are serial relationship guys and they can be pushy for one as soon as they see a girl they like. It seems to work for some guys and not others.
Then there are also some girls who seem to be completely put off by anyone who doesnt make it clear they only want a relationship.
Yet this doesnt seem to work much in modern times. Im not looking to use this as a strategy as it's manipulative, but I don't quiet understand why or when it works.
Does it only work when the guy has exceptional value so they are improving their attainability by being a bit pushy/needy?
Does it work when girls have been hurt recently by a bad boy and looking for a nicer guy?
The reason I ask, is that I see certain guys who I wouldn't say have very good game but are serial relationship guys and they can be pushy for one as soon as they see a girl they like. It seems to work for some guys and not others.
Then there are also some girls who seem to be completely put off by anyone who doesnt make it clear they only want a relationship.
