When I suggest we meet up, she doesn't respond

[randy__bobandy]

Hello gents,

Quick question here, not sure if I'm just really over analyzing this one.

I hooked up with a girl recently, and when I get in touch with her to meet up sometime, it seems like she doesn't respond.

For example, last monday I asked her if she wanted to grab a drink sometime, she said she cant she had a lot of work to catch up on, I said okay, we can meet up sometime next week or weekend.

Then no response.

She is actually very punctual with texts, I've never had to wait more than a minute for a reply.

Then today, (she is currently out of state, and this is the only time I've messaged her since last monday), I messaged her asking how the out-of-state stuff was going, at the end, after a total of only about 5 or 6 texts, I said, "okay, lemme know when you get back "

and no response again.

Now I don't want to keep harping on meeting up, because 1) no one likes when people harp on a topic, and B) it comes off like I'm doing the chasing. But just in general, is it normal to experience what I'm getting from her?

 

[flowerpower]

Hi,

I'm pretty sure I've read at least a couple of articles about that kind of situations, which I guess you can find easily.

In my opinion, it's time to let her go. There will always be people who can turn situations like these around but, ask yourself, is it really worth the effort? Twice already you've invested more than she did by trying to reignite a conversation with her, and the friendly bit where you text her about what she's doing etc. won't work in your favor (as a potential lover, that is). That's why this forum's philosophy of abundance is so important. Let her come back to you; if she doesn't, that's her loss.

 

[Water]

Keep gaming other girls.

Try again with this one in a week or so, and keep repeating that for a while.

Maybe appear less eager/available as well. There's a difference between, "When are you free?" and "I'm free Wednesday and Thursday, which of those works for you?" Not saying you're doing this wrong, just a suggestion to think about.