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When is the best time and day to approach women for optimal results...

Ryan

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...for the largest traffic of young, pretty women who are not busy with work. Nor in their own social groups (i.e. with their parents or friends).

As a beginner myself, i want to make things easy for myself and go for girls who are alone and up for meeting guys, rather than trying to talk awkwardly with a shy girl in front of her dad.


Pros and Cons of the different times of the day (IMO):

7:00 to 12:00 - Girls are too busy going to work or doing their own thing than waste time talking to guys.
13:00 to 16:00 - Girls are still too busy with commitments like work and shopping to waste time talking, but not as much as before 13:00. Approaching is easiest at this time from my experience however.
17:00 to 18:00 - Now the girls have the rest of the day for themselves and the evening atmosphere gives it a much more romantic feel. Downside of this time is that shy girls will put up more resistance than during the day and there's a greater danger of being perceived as creepy if you don't pull of your approach right. Girls are tired during this time, so won't be patient with you.
19:00 onwards - Wrong type of girls/party girls/prozzies

Pros and Cons of the different days of the week (IMO):

Monday - Girls are more open and relaxed to meeting guys after a restful weekend. Not likely to be with their social circle or Mum and Dad. Good time.
Tuesday to Thursday - Girls are beginning to be more concerned with their weekday commitments than anything else. Bad time.
Friday - Girls are too tired to meet anyone else after a long week. More girls hidden away/surrounded by their social circle on this day. Bad time.
Saturday to Sunday - Girls are usually, if not always in their social group. Those who aren't are too busy doing their own thing. But once you find that pretty girl having a lonely cup of coffee and she doesn't seem too busy, then it's smooth going provided you get that approach right (which is the easiest during the weekends). Neutral time.



That is my experience. if anyone has anything to add that will help me find the best time to go out and meet women, then i'll appreciate it if you can share them here.

I find if i just approach women during the day rather than follow a schedule, i can't properly focus because i'm too busy and i may be late for my own appointments.
 

Ryan

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Estate

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I think you're over thinking it man.

Everyone is different. If you wanted to meet a girl who's down to party then approaching her at 9am probably isn't her time of the day. Night-time at bars or in the city would be.
On the other hand some women don't party, you'll meet young professionals at 9am in the city who may be up for 5 hours already and have been to the gym etc, you won't find her at 1am at a bar but early in the day she's wide awake and cool with talking.
 

Franco

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ryan,

You're definitely over-thinking this. You shouldn't be taking into account what the "general consensus" is of what women may or may not be doing or thinking at any time of the day.

When is the best time to approach women? When you have free time in your schedule. Find what works best for you, and don't worry about how you will be received at specific times of the day.

- Franco
 

Ryan

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Ah, thanks for that. The problem was that i have a very tight schedule and i was wondering when was best to devote my time for the best results.
 
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