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Lay (1/3) from my 2 week NY trip.
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The plan went haywire before it really began.
Originally, we had wanted to head to Street F. The rumoured street with lots of sexy Asians. I’m not particularly wild about them but some are gorgeous so why the hell not, right?
Looking it up, it seemed to be nicely close to our AirBnB! So we head off and get there by metro.
Stepping out at our destination, we raise our heads and immediately notice… a distinct lack of Asian babes.
In fact, there is a distinct lack… of anything non-residential really. The rusty metal, dirty streets, and occasional street vendor place plop into our reality.
Turns out, we went to the WRONG Street F - we went to Street F A.
Well, the actual one is an hour away, so we decide to stay and wander around.
Walking in one direction, we warm up by asking for directions to the really occasional girl walking past. We get that it’s better where we came from just turned right, so we go back.
At another ‘avenue’ we see some lone opportunities and go run and position to approach them. I go meet HBModel, then next one is this one. HBFlower.
@Skippy is off chatting up this hot columbian chick, and I spy a hot blondie come to other street side and want to cross. Making sure to not look at her, I move to position myself.
She comes near my proximity. I am on my phone, looking around a bit, playing the tourist card. Then I pretend to notice her.
“Hey, I have an important question for you,” I say. HBFlower stops and mirrors my smile.
“Are you from the area?” I ask. I like this question a lot because it seems to activate the social acceptance of talking to a new interesting stranger.
“Yes, why?” She asks.
“Oh, perfect. Well then, I have to ask you… what are fun, interesting places to go to here?”
She starts answering, I hold strong eye contact. Don’t even know what she said.
“I actually asked you because you seem like a fun person,” I tell her soon into it. Because I found that it’s important to have some cold read or hooking tech when going for ‘I’m a tourist, recommend me something’ because otherwise, it’s almost like they roll out a preset program that includes an ejection-once-done mechanism. So have to counteract that when going this route.
She likes it and thanks me, I roll out the bait of me not being from here. She bites, I have her guess where I’m from (Why do they all say France or Belgium as first guess?), give her the hint, and high-five once she then gets it.
Do another deeper qualifier of her fun, open, spontaneous energy. Maybe in the future I can field test adding a “and I really like that about you”. Thoughts?
So it hits and she has to leave because she’s in a rush, but she actually CLOSES ME and asks if I want to grab drinks!
Green light!
Of course I’m down, and have her put my number in Whatsapp and text me something creative on the spot.
That was Tuesday. I had a date planned for the evening from a number of the day before. She was not responding to my asking her the time to meet, the message not even received, so I decided to not count on her. And voilà, it came.
So I ask her what good bars she knows in my area, she offers something but also offers another one rather nearby, which she really likes. I agree with that one because logistics are still good, one metro ride away.
She tells me she’s already there. Damn. It’s about 7pm.
So I know not to dawdle and let wildcards happen, so head off quickly. And as I almost arrive, the girl I originally had a date with texted. Saying she accidentally let her battery die, and if we’re still on. I sadly have to decline… you missed your chance girl.
Enter the bar and walk through the louder music to reach the more quiet outside garden area. There I let my gaze drift until it stops at a cute dirty blonde girl in a blue floral skirt and black top. My date for tonight.
Walk up to her as she’s occupied on her phone and let her look at me first before making eye contact.
Sit down opposite of her, she starts fluffing about the apartment viewing that was for a friend, I at times have her show me her hand or watch for some nice touch opportunities. She complies but doesn’t do anything back. Also notice how she has trouble making eye contact - not in an nervous way, more in a that’s how she is way. Over the course of the evening both touch and eye contact would increase as I escalated (or rather, because of it).
I move on to the standard SOT’s, in fact I reframe basically everything she says as an SOT. Like for example she tells me how she’s viewing the apartment for a friend. And me leading into how nice it is to have a friend or someone you can trust, and in fact feel at ease with and be yourself… you get the gist.
Do this couple times, then ask if she wants to go inside for drinks. She agrees and both recommends and pays for my drinks. What is up with all these daygame dates where I only rarely end up paying for anything! The date I had a few days before this with this sexy Latina had her pay for my Tacos and drinks too.
Have us stay inside, best seating option is a high table where I have us sit at a 90 degree angle. So can access her legs for touch, which I do very softly at first, then increasingly. One fun little thing I did (and did again for all future girls here) was draw an outline of my country on her leg and then with touch show which region speaks what.
Alternate between fluff talk and SOT’s, but really mainly this SOT-reframing to lead to frames of openness, adventure, spontaneity, marching to the beat of your own drums. Also of course go into non-judgemental frames which I transition into easily by talking about my gay best friend.
Not long after sitting inside I begin strategizing to pull. The main thing is seeding something for the pull, and not let the venue change kill the vibe, because I was worried going from loud dynamic music to quiet, dim outside could crash her state.
So I seed with the special Mango-Coconut prop I had bought before with exactly this in mind, and also lead us back outside to the more quiet garden for fractionation so she can get used to vibe and transition changes with me. A mini version of Skill’s 3-bounce technique.
I make us change like 3 times in total, each time ramping the vibe up more when we head inside to music. Second time I have her pose like one picture on the wall next to us after she commented on it, and she is overall reciprocating my touch more now.
One little thing I like is to make use of is her body-mind feedback loop. So take her hand and place it on my leg or shoulders or on top of my hand. Wherever really, where it then seems like she’s the one escalating on me. This really works for some reason.
Third time we go inside I slowly sit down on the high chair facing outwards, and she just remains standing and looking at me expectantly. I smile and pull her in, and she basically kisses me. Soon after I pull with the seeded Mango wine.
Walk to metro holding interlocked hands, occasional kissing that I control. Get to AirBnb relatively quickly.
Go up, serve us the Mango wine.
Oh, and they all asked at this point as we’re sitting on the couch together about a surprisingly innocuous yet actually noticeable scar I have. Which I turn into a gambit of luck, appreciating what you have, living in the moment, no time to lose… because at any moment you could lose it all.
Quickly we’re making out more intensely. Then I get her main objection.
“I have to tell you something,” she says, breaking off. “I’m on my period.”
I just look at her. “Oh, ok. Yeah that’s fine, we’ll just grab a towel,” I say.
She somehow seems surprised. “You sure?” She asks
“Yes! In fact, I think it’s super hot!” I answer, and kiss her passionately again. Repeat it a full time until she really believes it. Smooth sailing from there. To be honest I’ve never had sex with a girl on her period but it was totally fine, I didn’t even notice anything… except a blood stain I found on the sheets after. Oh well. Neither the girls after nor the airbnb host noticed it, so all's well!
She had beautiful blue/grey eyes and what I’d love to do is slap her face and order her to look me in the eyes. To which she would sensually arch her body to look at me deeply. Fuck!
Honestly my sex game is ok at best here. We fuck for an hour until it’s late and she says she has to go back home and feed her cat or something. It's late and we have a passionate goodbye kiss.
Either way, green or not she was not quite fully receptive from the start and just needed me to not fuck it up. And I think I did a good job of escalating both verbally and nonverbally.
What I would do better is go into more sex talk, because now I just did the non-judgemental part and frames whilst otherwise being an interesting and sexy guy. Sex talk has so much potential I wasn’t making use of here. Just for the future.
TLDR: So I met the rumoured DTF green light and made the best of it.
I love girls.
Onwards!
-Dev
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The plan went haywire before it really began.
Originally, we had wanted to head to Street F. The rumoured street with lots of sexy Asians. I’m not particularly wild about them but some are gorgeous so why the hell not, right?
Looking it up, it seemed to be nicely close to our AirBnB! So we head off and get there by metro.
Stepping out at our destination, we raise our heads and immediately notice… a distinct lack of Asian babes.
In fact, there is a distinct lack… of anything non-residential really. The rusty metal, dirty streets, and occasional street vendor place plop into our reality.
Turns out, we went to the WRONG Street F - we went to Street F A.
Well, the actual one is an hour away, so we decide to stay and wander around.
Walking in one direction, we warm up by asking for directions to the really occasional girl walking past. We get that it’s better where we came from just turned right, so we go back.
At another ‘avenue’ we see some lone opportunities and go run and position to approach them. I go meet HBModel, then next one is this one. HBFlower.
@Skippy is off chatting up this hot columbian chick, and I spy a hot blondie come to other street side and want to cross. Making sure to not look at her, I move to position myself.
She comes near my proximity. I am on my phone, looking around a bit, playing the tourist card. Then I pretend to notice her.
“Hey, I have an important question for you,” I say. HBFlower stops and mirrors my smile.
“Are you from the area?” I ask. I like this question a lot because it seems to activate the social acceptance of talking to a new interesting stranger.
“Yes, why?” She asks.
“Oh, perfect. Well then, I have to ask you… what are fun, interesting places to go to here?”
She starts answering, I hold strong eye contact. Don’t even know what she said.
“I actually asked you because you seem like a fun person,” I tell her soon into it. Because I found that it’s important to have some cold read or hooking tech when going for ‘I’m a tourist, recommend me something’ because otherwise, it’s almost like they roll out a preset program that includes an ejection-once-done mechanism. So have to counteract that when going this route.
She likes it and thanks me, I roll out the bait of me not being from here. She bites, I have her guess where I’m from (Why do they all say France or Belgium as first guess?), give her the hint, and high-five once she then gets it.
Do another deeper qualifier of her fun, open, spontaneous energy. Maybe in the future I can field test adding a “and I really like that about you”. Thoughts?
So it hits and she has to leave because she’s in a rush, but she actually CLOSES ME and asks if I want to grab drinks!
Green light!
Of course I’m down, and have her put my number in Whatsapp and text me something creative on the spot.
That was Tuesday. I had a date planned for the evening from a number of the day before. She was not responding to my asking her the time to meet, the message not even received, so I decided to not count on her. And voilà, it came.
Her: Something creative
Me: Something creative back
Me: Good recs today!
Her: Haha you’re welcome sorry I didn’t have more was in a rush to get to this apartment viewing
Her: My plans tonight fell through if you’re still in the area and want to get a drink or something let me know!
Me: Sounds good
I'm actually right by [XY Station], do you have any ideas for the area?
Her: There's a bar kinda near there XY that I know has like slushie drinks I went there years ago I could be down for that
Her: Or if you feel like hopping on the train I'm at Bar X right now near XYZ a couple stops away from where you're at, it's like cheap and has a big backyard!!
Her: There's also a bar in the EV that has free jazz Tuesday nights could be down to check that out later
Me: I'm up for adventure. Can go for this, it sounds great! [Answering to her second message]
Her: Ok sweet I'm at a table out back!!
Me: Something creative back
Me: Good recs today!
Her: Haha you’re welcome sorry I didn’t have more was in a rush to get to this apartment viewing
Her: My plans tonight fell through if you’re still in the area and want to get a drink or something let me know!
Me: Sounds good
I'm actually right by [XY Station], do you have any ideas for the area?Her: There's a bar kinda near there XY that I know has like slushie drinks I went there years ago I could be down for that
Her: Or if you feel like hopping on the train I'm at Bar X right now near XYZ a couple stops away from where you're at, it's like cheap and has a big backyard!!
Her: There's also a bar in the EV that has free jazz Tuesday nights could be down to check that out later
Me: I'm up for adventure. Can go for this, it sounds great! [Answering to her second message]
Her: Ok sweet I'm at a table out back!!
So I ask her what good bars she knows in my area, she offers something but also offers another one rather nearby, which she really likes. I agree with that one because logistics are still good, one metro ride away.
She tells me she’s already there. Damn. It’s about 7pm.
So I know not to dawdle and let wildcards happen, so head off quickly. And as I almost arrive, the girl I originally had a date with texted. Saying she accidentally let her battery die, and if we’re still on. I sadly have to decline… you missed your chance girl.
Enter the bar and walk through the louder music to reach the more quiet outside garden area. There I let my gaze drift until it stops at a cute dirty blonde girl in a blue floral skirt and black top. My date for tonight.
Walk up to her as she’s occupied on her phone and let her look at me first before making eye contact.
Sit down opposite of her, she starts fluffing about the apartment viewing that was for a friend, I at times have her show me her hand or watch for some nice touch opportunities. She complies but doesn’t do anything back. Also notice how she has trouble making eye contact - not in an nervous way, more in a that’s how she is way. Over the course of the evening both touch and eye contact would increase as I escalated (or rather, because of it).
I move on to the standard SOT’s, in fact I reframe basically everything she says as an SOT. Like for example she tells me how she’s viewing the apartment for a friend. And me leading into how nice it is to have a friend or someone you can trust, and in fact feel at ease with and be yourself… you get the gist.
Do this couple times, then ask if she wants to go inside for drinks. She agrees and both recommends and pays for my drinks. What is up with all these daygame dates where I only rarely end up paying for anything! The date I had a few days before this with this sexy Latina had her pay for my Tacos and drinks too.
Have us stay inside, best seating option is a high table where I have us sit at a 90 degree angle. So can access her legs for touch, which I do very softly at first, then increasingly. One fun little thing I did (and did again for all future girls here) was draw an outline of my country on her leg and then with touch show which region speaks what.
Alternate between fluff talk and SOT’s, but really mainly this SOT-reframing to lead to frames of openness, adventure, spontaneity, marching to the beat of your own drums. Also of course go into non-judgemental frames which I transition into easily by talking about my gay best friend.
Not long after sitting inside I begin strategizing to pull. The main thing is seeding something for the pull, and not let the venue change kill the vibe, because I was worried going from loud dynamic music to quiet, dim outside could crash her state.
So I seed with the special Mango-Coconut prop I had bought before with exactly this in mind, and also lead us back outside to the more quiet garden for fractionation so she can get used to vibe and transition changes with me. A mini version of Skill’s 3-bounce technique.
I make us change like 3 times in total, each time ramping the vibe up more when we head inside to music. Second time I have her pose like one picture on the wall next to us after she commented on it, and she is overall reciprocating my touch more now.
One little thing I like is to make use of is her body-mind feedback loop. So take her hand and place it on my leg or shoulders or on top of my hand. Wherever really, where it then seems like she’s the one escalating on me. This really works for some reason.
Third time we go inside I slowly sit down on the high chair facing outwards, and she just remains standing and looking at me expectantly. I smile and pull her in, and she basically kisses me. Soon after I pull with the seeded Mango wine.
Walk to metro holding interlocked hands, occasional kissing that I control. Get to AirBnb relatively quickly.
Go up, serve us the Mango wine.
Oh, and they all asked at this point as we’re sitting on the couch together about a surprisingly innocuous yet actually noticeable scar I have. Which I turn into a gambit of luck, appreciating what you have, living in the moment, no time to lose… because at any moment you could lose it all.
Quickly we’re making out more intensely. Then I get her main objection.
“I have to tell you something,” she says, breaking off. “I’m on my period.”
I just look at her. “Oh, ok. Yeah that’s fine, we’ll just grab a towel,” I say.
She somehow seems surprised. “You sure?” She asks
“Yes! In fact, I think it’s super hot!” I answer, and kiss her passionately again. Repeat it a full time until she really believes it. Smooth sailing from there. To be honest I’ve never had sex with a girl on her period but it was totally fine, I didn’t even notice anything… except a blood stain I found on the sheets after. Oh well. Neither the girls after nor the airbnb host noticed it, so all's well!
She had beautiful blue/grey eyes and what I’d love to do is slap her face and order her to look me in the eyes. To which she would sensually arch her body to look at me deeply. Fuck!
Honestly my sex game is ok at best here. We fuck for an hour until it’s late and she says she has to go back home and feed her cat or something. It's late and we have a passionate goodbye kiss.
Conclusion
Overall, was at the right place at the right time. Set up nice indirect approach, tourist frame, and enough spice to hook an open woman. Her friends were in Italy for the week so maybe she was looking for fun of her own too. She does not text me back after funnily enough. Not that it matters.Either way, green or not she was not quite fully receptive from the start and just needed me to not fuck it up. And I think I did a good job of escalating both verbally and nonverbally.
What I would do better is go into more sex talk, because now I just did the non-judgemental part and frames whilst otherwise being an interesting and sexy guy. Sex talk has so much potential I wasn’t making use of here. Just for the future.
TLDR: So I met the rumoured DTF green light and made the best of it.
I love girls.
Onwards!
-Dev
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