#9: Be Persistent
Some guys meet a girl with a boyfriend who is not sure whether she wants them or not. Many guys will get discouraged here and throw in the towel, when in fact had they persisted somewhat they would've gotten the girl.
You needn't be persistent in an off-putting way - you can be quite charming as you persist. e.g.:
You: Come with me, let's steal away into the night.
Her: I can't... I have a boyfriend.
You: It's okay, he'll never know.
Her: But *I'll* know.
You: So will I. We can share it together as a secret.
Her: [laughs] No!
You: I don't think you'd be laughing if you weren't interested.
Her: I'm laughing because this is ridiculous.
You: You're laughing because you're too excited to contain your laughter. Now let's go.
Her: [laughs] I am not going anywhere!
You: We'll go for five minutes and then you can leave if you want to.
Her: Okay. But ONLY five minutes!
You: Cross my heart.
Her: [laughs] Okay, let's go.
This kind of persistence can be very winning with women - very attractive to them. And if you persist with a girl persistently (sounds funny, right? Persist persistently?), and she stays around for it, you can be assured that she's at least considering it... otherwise, she'd be uncomfortable and she'd be gone.
