When she's taking you for a test drive...

[Doncorleone]

There's this girl that I'm interested in, and I posted about the previous situation here... viewtopic.php?f=7&t=9063
Now that same girl dumped her boyfriend last week. We were together a few nights ago when she mentioned she wasn't exactly ready for another relationship, but that I'm someone she likes to be with and a "good possibility" for her next boyfriend. We're meeting up this weekend, and I want to make sure that I can make a really good impression. I'm able to maintain the typical "How are you, what did you do today, are you looking forward to summer?" Basic conversation, but have difficulty taking it to the flirting or fun level where there's a lot of laughing and interest, or starting the conversation that will turn up the level of our relationship....if you know what I mean.... Any tips for me? Thanks!!!

 

[Inferno]

I wouldn't invest my stock in this girl who's "considering" you, She said you might be her next boyfriend, and all that would probably entail would be you becoming a sexless figurehead or tool to scare away those nasty orbiters she has. That's been my experience with girls like that. Have you had sex with her yet?
If not, I'm afraid your window of opportunity has closed on sex. But who knows? She could be a friend for you? just don't run after her.

It's really bad 'cause it feels so real

when a girl is nice to you, and has a sexual openess, but is taking forever to have sex.
this is mainly because of inexperience of lays with women you date.
So my suggestion is to set a time for yourself,

after each time you talk to a new prospect you:

consider her invesment
-is she touchy?
-is she making strong eye contact
- is she moving with me

after exchanging numbers with new girls,
if they're in college ( I know college girls who are swamped with work)
you should give them about three weeks, and if no date is arranged , you delete the number
When you're starting out, you should only text her for dates, otherwise you could hurt your chances with more exposure to one girl, you lose your mystery.
Hope you get everything sorted out

 

[Inferno]

https://www.girlschase.com/content/sad-tale-shopping-guy

from reading both post, I would suggest reading this