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When should I ask this girl out?

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Space Monkey
space monkey
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There is a girl at the company I work for who I think is pretty cool, and I planned on asking her out. I think there is definite chemistry, and when I was at the pub with colleagues, and I was talking to her, 2 mutual friends came over at various points and teasingly asked if they were interrupting a date , and her best friend came over, and at one point asked if I had a girlfriend, which may have been a set up....obviously I know none of this is definite etc, but I like her enough that I'd be interesting in getting to know her more intimately.

However, next Friday, she goes on holiday to India with her family for a month. I'm in a bit of a tricky situation. Do I make a move now and strike while the iron is hot, have 1 date , but then not talk to her for the whole month, or do I wait for her to come back, so I can build momentum through successive dates?
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Drck

Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
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Do it now, even if it is brief date, you should be fine since she's coming back
 
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