Curious what you guys think. Better to tell a girl you are not looking for anything serious before you bed her or after. Assuming you are bedding her on the first date that is. Before hand could send up slut defence, but also keep you out of boyfriend catagory. Does adding that you are "possibly open to something in the future but you are not in that place now" does it lower her slut defence or put you in the boyfriend catagory? Afterward it could keep her hooked and not write you off as a one nighter.
When to mention you are not serious as a technique for hooking her
- Thread starter Escher
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